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Your current boyfriend sounds like he wouldn't cheat on you if you're this sure, and if he's assuring you that he wouldn't hit you even when he's bipolar then he must love you enough to promise to restrain himself.

Actually, don't answer that if it'd bring up unpleasant memories.
Try thinking of it like this, if he abused you, think of all the times you angered your boyfriend yet he still would never do something like that. Try and prove to yourself that he would never do something that horrible.

See if you can find a way to beat the bad thoughts rather than just avoid them. What did your last boyfriend do?

Oh I'm sure it is, I'm just saying that's what will help relieve some stress. I'm not saying "trust in him this instant", just that if trust is the issue, that's what'll fix it.

Oh I didn't mean to say you did, I just meant my friend did in the sense that he would never call (it's a long distance thing) and does a bunch of really selfish things but she won't break up with him still. You kinda just have to trust that not all guys will be abusive and that he wouldn't do that.

Yes and no. Yes because my friend (not sure if you're this bad) jumps to every conclusion and lets her boyfriend walk all over her because she thinks she'd be pushy to say anything. No because, even though she is like this, she's not any worse of a friend. What I mean is if you worry about every little thing it'd kinda make you suffer throughou the relationship but it's not some huge flaw that'll tear apart the universe thread by thread.

Good
You sound a lot like my friend in that she's had a bunch of jerk boyfriends who only wanted sex from her. She's still really hesitant about guys because she thinks just about all of them are like that and she worries about everything. Sounds to me like you've got no problems in that relationship and that it's just a little paranoia, so just try to remember that that's all it is.

Just relax, things always work out however they're meant to, and worrying doesn't help anything
It sounds like he really likes you, so that proves two things:
1. There's no reason he wouldn't want to propose (other than wanting to wait to be older)
and
2. You're awesome enough to have a guy love you enough to do those things for you, so this proves that the bullies are just pricks and that you're too good for them

Don't be! A relationship is all about being able to ask any question that you want and not feel pressured criticized or anything. It'll all be alright, and I'm here to make sure of that

Aw, I'm sorry, just remember that a guy is nothing to get depressed about (upset is ok, but once you cross into depression territory it's bad). Just don't jump to conclusions if that's what you did, and even if it was true, there's always going to be another guy