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  1. CherriesBlossom
    November 23rd 2009 03:14 AM - permalink
    CherriesBlossom
    your welcome!!
  2. Babity
    November 23rd 2009 03:09 AM - permalink
    Babity
    O wow! That's impressive. I hope I live to be that old. What's their secret? hahaha
    haha I suppose the house is big enough to fit everyone. But as annoying as cleaning is at least I get to see my baby cousins. They are such big cutie pies hehe I love babies lol
  3. WanderingTomato
    November 21st 2009 05:01 AM - permalink
    WanderingTomato
    Hey Alessa,
    Thanks for the welcome! I am actually an old tried and true member, but I can't find my account for some reason. Its been a while since I've turned to teenhelp, but it has always done me well.
    Thanks
  4. dear diary
    November 21st 2009 04:36 AM - permalink
    dear diary
    thank you.
  5. Mason
    November 21st 2009 01:16 AM - permalink
    Mason
    Nah just left the papers on the table, he signed, idk what Im gonna do yet tho.
  6. Mason
    November 20th 2009 11:54 PM - permalink
    Mason
    Ha yahhh I can't wait to move out, just me and my dog Louie Dog. lol
  7. CanadaCraig
    November 20th 2009 11:35 AM - permalink
    CanadaCraig
    Hi ~Alessa!!

    I hope you're having a super duper day!!


    I think most adults remember - they just never learned how to deal with what they went through. People just didn't TALK about how they felt. And men - especially - were encouraged NOT to talk. A 'real man' doesn't share his feelings - even with his best pal. And isn't that the saddest thing? But I've had countless numbers of very REAL conversations with a lot of people - of all ages. I have discovered that most people are desperate to share their story and to be HEARD!! So I always try to open that door for them - letting them know that it IS safe to talk to me. And the best way to do that is to be open and honest with them - to be courageous enough to be openly vulnerable - to share a little something of yourself. I've learned a lot about people that way. And what I've learned more than anything else is that everyone just wants to be loved. I think it would surprise most teenagers [Especially] just how sad most adults are. And how much they would appreciate being treated with kindness and compassion. Trouble is - we [As in all of us] tend to WAIT for the 'other guy' to be nice to us FIRST. So nothing REAL ever happens. We just all keep 'playing the game' and pretending to be something we are not. That said - it's important not to be fooled by what we see. Or to judge someone based on a first impression. An 85 year old man [For instance] doesn't have an 85 year old soul. He's just a guy - like he's always been - getting around IN an 85 year old body!! And that's true for everyone. Adults - I say - are really just 'kids with wrinkles'.

    I hope you'll accept my friendship request.
    GREAT BIG HUG
    Craig!!

    PS
    - I love 'my' Mona Lisa!! lol
  8. Babity
    November 20th 2009 02:40 AM - permalink
    Babity
    haha totally. I'm totally excited though....Jan 4th they're off for sure. I made the appointment
    YAY
    Ooo cool. Are you excited to see everyone?
    I'm getting together with my dad's side of the family. It's really big. We've got my uncles and aunts and my 1st and 2nd cousins. It might be at our house though so I'm like "AHH! I"ll have to clean!!" lol
  9. Briana
    November 20th 2009 02:18 AM - permalink
    Briana
    haha thanks...I am so OCD with it lol. Like when I scroll down and I see that hugeee list...I have sit at my computer for hours just to clear it...but its not cleared because that one name cant be haha oiii.
  10. l0stCause
    November 20th 2009 01:18 AM - permalink
    l0stCause
    hey alessa,
    thanks for the oficial welcome! to answer your question no ive never been here before but i am a firm believer in what goes round comes around so fo every question i ask and for every response i get i figure i owe it to spread the help and give any advice i can
    sincerly
    tj

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