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Don't look at it like that, there are millions of people out there, you will eventually find the right person. She may just want a break as I said and for now you need to wait. If you get impatient, it will get a lot worse for you. If I were you, I would be spending as much time with your friend that has been stabbed. He needs you to help him and I am happy to help him also but he would like support from people he knows after what happened. I am sure if you give her time she will calm down but don't keep messaging her. If you want to just talk, then talk to me and maybe leave her alone for a little while.

You have to wait 3 weeks to find the answer to that. She may come back to you in that time and text you. As for seeing her, I would wait unless she says otherwise

There's no win or lose. This isn't a game, this is her life and her feelings, and if you love and care about her, you'll respect her need for space.

I would tell her that she can call or text you back whenever she wants, but don't pressure her to do so.

Ask her what she wants. I think leaving her alone for a while would be beneficial, but it doesn't need to be for three weeks precisely. What I would do is only reply to her when she texts you for a while. Don't text her in the morning. Don't call her. Let her come to you, and reply when she wants to talk. Let her be in charge. If she no longer wants to speak with you, then it's her choice. If that "ruins" everything in your definition, ultimately, if that's what she wants, then you need to respect that.

It's really up to her. She needs to figure some things out right now, and from your post, it sounds like she's going back and forth. Don't push her into anything at the moment, just stick to texting and talking (or however you guys usually communicate).

I will help you on what to say if you want so that she comes back on your side. You should be very proud of yourself for what you've done so far. Is your friend getting better?

What do you need help with exactly? What's confusing you?

Welcome to TeenHelp! I'm glad you've been reaching out for advice about your recent breakup and your friend. If you need any advice, feel free to hit me up! I'm Traci, I'm a Community Mentor here and moderator of the Sex and Puberty and Relationships and Dating forum, so I have a lot of experience giving advice about sex and relationships. If you're looking for more forms of advice, I'd check out our full services list here.

I also just replied to your second thread.