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Welcome! I'm Dede, feel free to talk to me anytime
xx

Merry Christmas!

Firstly, I don't think I introduced myself, I'm Jay, sorry, that was rude of me to forget to do so

Well, there are thousands of things to live for, but it depends on your gender it's different for both, so help me out, male or female?

Are you calling me stupid? I know the world is a darker place than it should, but to make light, you have to light a few candles (people).
I attempted suicide, if I'm honest, I didn't see any good in the world, I thought I was destined to be hurt and broken all my life. And then I met my best friend/brother on this site! And he helps pull me back up, to help me back up when I fall. And some days, I regret H calling the paramedics, I thought the world would be better without me in it. But, suicide just isn't worth it, coz, we're all still young, we have a hell of a lot of life left to live, new adventures, new experiences. Just wait and you'll see!

When I'm in a pit of depression, I think to myself, what good is living when we're only going to die. What good is trying? But I am wrong, we all have a purpose, it isn't the cut, not to find a way out of this world, but to LIVE and to BELIEVE that something good will happen to us.

Jay.

Hey there,

I'm so sorry to hear this I am glad I broke my break to view my notifications.

Mate, I know how you feel, I've been so hurt myself that I have no faith in humanity as a whole but I try my best to leave a positive impact on the world because, as a quote says, be the change YOU wanna SEE!

If you really think about it, there is no unselfish good deed, the actual definition of selfish is "doing something for another and feeling good about it, or doing it solely for themself".
When I try and help people, and receive a message back saying how much I helped them, yes, I feel good, but for them, knowing that I could have just helped them out of the rut even for a brief window of time. Or giving them a piece of advice they really take.
I try my best to just help people, and I love it. I cannot live without helping another. And I do see where you are coming from, really I do. But, I want to see this world become a bit brighter.
I suffer from PTSD, depression, self harm, relationships problems, an ED, a few anxiety disorders, but I try and look passed it and usin the wisdom I collected, I try and help somebody who is struggling with what I go through daily.

The world can be a better place, but we must help this generation to know that there is something much better, that they don't have to cut, they don't have to restrict/binge/purge to feel good about themselves, they don't have to go through their days with a grim expression, that WE can BE the DIFFERENCE!

Jay.

Hey there RandomName, I just saw your post on Bonnie's thread about that none of us really care and we are "bolstering our own self worth".
Firstly, I would like to welcome you to the site.
Secondly, I'm a buddy and I would wish you would look at the code of conduct, TeenHelp is an advice/help site! We are meant to offer our support and give advice to those hurting, yes, while telling them to cry ins a corner may be "helpful" to release their tension etc. I think we all deserve a little bit of advice. The cry method doesn't work for me anymore, and I can barely cry so telling me to do so would be worthless.
I'm sorry if I sound harsh, 3 hours sleep does not agree with me.
And I hope to talk to you soon, without ribbing you of course,

Jay.

Oh, I did say hi!
Just being friendly.

Did I? Hello

Hey there RandomName! Welcome to TeenHelp! I'm Amalia, a buddy here on TH. TeenHelp is a great community and everyone here is really glad that you have decided to join. One great way to get started in this community is by posting here and letting the TH community know a little about yourself. If you need help, and aren’t sure where to start, make sure you check out the chatroom, users are there often, and are always willing to lend a hand. Another way to get help, is either LiveHelp or HelpLink which you can learn about by checking out this link. If you have any other questions, or need anything (including advice), feel free to send me a PM, which you can do by clicking here. I noticed as well that you haven’t filled out your About Me tab out. Many users do this, and it’s another great way to let other users know some things about you, such as your taste in music, hobbies, and other things as well. You can get to it by clicking on User CP, which is on the left hand side of the second menu on the top of the screen.
One thing I enjoy doing is making graphics and such, so if you would like an avatar or banner for your signature, feel free to PM me as well. What are some of your hobbies? How are you?
Once again, welcome! I really hope to see you around the forums and in the chat room soon