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  1. Philomath
    January 8th 2013 05:36 AM - permalink
    Philomath
    I am extremely sorry for this second VM but, seriously, I've been wondering this: Who in the world is Hugh Jackman?
  2. Philomath
    January 8th 2013 05:30 AM - permalink
    Philomath
    That is okay.

    Hahaha, I love sarcasm! I just try to think of everything I have to do in chronological order and then I try to complete it in chronological order. I just have a really hard time fitting the non-scheduled items with deadlines (assignments, studying etc.) into an organized schedule.
    I like when I get my schedule from school because it has all of my classes, where I have to be and when. I'd like something like that but I have no idea how to organize all of my homework and other activities so that can happen.
    I've also tried using my phone's calendar and reminder features however I will not have my phone for the first week or two of this semester because it is now broken and I have to get it replaced.


    Wow! That sounds like it may be the same as my school's system...not really sure but it sounds really close anyways. Thanks for the break down.
    Also, I have a class where I do not have the grade yet, is that common of professors? (like something I should try to get used to, instead of panicing because I have all of my grades except one?) The deadline was the 2 and now it is the 8 and I really want to know my grade before Monday when the new semester starts.


    Yayaya!!! This made my night/early morning!! I am glad I was able to help out and I have an idea for an article but I'm not sure if it would work.
    I've been thinking of writing an article on the application process to college for students with disabilities. While our application process is pretty much the same, there are some things I did during my process that really helped with both my college choice and made the transition between high school and college a lot easier. (such as asking the school if they have other students with my disability (to ensure that I am not the first person to attend a college with my disability, this can and I know people that are going through this, cause many problems for both the student and administration that can affect the students success academically and socially.) Also, I asked the college if they could provide texts in my prefered formats (Braille) or for some students with LD's, audio, a combination of audio and print, extended time for exams etc.
  3. Philomath
    January 5th 2013 08:15 PM - permalink
    Philomath
    Hey!! I hope your break is continuing to go well! How have you been spending your time?
    Just a couple of things, I am a rather disorganized person (in terms of getting things completed, time management etc.), is it possible you may have some tips on this? I think learning some ways to be more organized would be one thing that will help me this semester coming up.
    And the second thing, could you explain to me the 4.0 scale because I seriously do not get it since my school had a 100 point scale.
  4. Coffee.
    January 1st 2013 03:43 AM - permalink
    Coffee.
  5. ~Divergent~
    December 25th 2012 09:12 PM - permalink
    ~Divergent~
    Merry Christmas!
  6. Gingerbread Latte
    December 25th 2012 04:09 PM - permalink
    Gingerbread Latte
  7. .:PrincessZelda:.
    December 25th 2012 11:16 AM - permalink
    .:PrincessZelda:.
  8. PlayingPretend
    December 21st 2012 03:30 AM - permalink
    PlayingPretend
    Well my career path has taken a completely different turn.
  9. Moxie.
    December 20th 2012 08:23 PM - permalink
    Moxie.
    Squeeee! She just might be one of the cutest things I've ever seen! I want her.

    Awh, I'm so stinkin' happy for you. I can't wait to hear about the engagement when it happens! I'd love to have a relationship like yours one day!

    Yeah, that would be the one. Right now, I just keep a weekly calendar, but I really think I need to work on the color coding.
  10. Moxie.
    December 20th 2012 07:57 AM - permalink
    Moxie.
    Well, I definitely care. It would be an honor to be there. Keep me posted on everything. Just try to give me a bit of a heads-up, so I can ask for the day off.

    I'm actually gonna try to implement the calendar idea that you told me about. I kind of do it now, but I really think I'll need it in the future. If you have any more tips, let me know!

    Well, I'm technically a sophomore next semester because of all my AP credits from high school. Hooray for being an over-achiever in high school. I might take you up on that. It's nice having a friend who's been in my shoes before and done it successfully.

    Beagle! Send me a picture, please. I love dogs. Awh, I hope you guys have an amazing time! I'm sure you will. From what you've told me, the two of you have an awesome relationship.

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