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  1. Hollifire
    June 11th 2010 09:45 AM - permalink
    Hollifire
    Haha you remind me so much of myself. I literally always wait to do things until the last minute. But, I've been changing lately and getting things done earlier, and I realized I like being this way. (: Now, lets just see how long it lasts for, lol.
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  3. MadPoet
    June 11th 2010 04:48 AM - permalink
    MadPoet
    Cool, that actually sounds pretty interesting. xD Psychology must be such a cool subject to major in.
    I was so happy when TH decided to work! My life is now back to normal again.
  4. Snufkin
    June 11th 2010 01:20 AM - permalink
    Snufkin
    Thank you. I'm always self concious about what I write, whether it's a post, a blog somewhere or an essay in school, so it's nice to hear you enjoy them

    Wow, that's a strict age rating. Most gigs I've been to have been 14+ so I've never had that problem, though one was in a pub which my under 18 friend got thrown out of. Whoops. I saw Nightwish on the 31st March 2008. I think it may've been the best night of my life.

    I would so love to read that essay. Glee is definitely my obsession at the moment, though I'll need to find something new for the Summer now that it's over True Blood I'm sort of behind on. I've only seen up to episode 3 of season 2 so got a few more episodes til I'm caught up. It's a very unusual setting indeed, I don't think I've ever seen a show set in the south. It took a while to get used to the accents, haha. Unfortunately everytime I see Sookie, I think of the way Bill says her name and burst out laughing. It's just so...dramatic!
  5. Snufkin
    June 11th 2010 01:00 AM - permalink
    Snufkin
    Just a friendly message to say I greatly enjoy reading your posts and respect your replies. And to add to that, I respect your music interests greatly as well. Anyone with "Nightwish" and "Within Temptation" in their library deserves a pat on the back.
  6. Hollifire
    June 10th 2010 08:15 PM - permalink
    Hollifire
    Haha yeaahhh, well I like to give original nick names. What have you been up to, love? <3
  7. Hollifire
    June 10th 2010 07:41 PM - permalink
    Hollifire
    I think it's safe to say that I think you're the bomb diggity, yo.
  8. MadPoet
    June 10th 2010 06:40 PM - permalink
    MadPoet
    I know this awesome girl named PSY
    Without her awesomeness TH might die!
    She gives great advice and always makes you smile
    I want to VM her and talk for awhile!
  9. Mel
    June 8th 2010 03:59 AM - permalink
    Mel
    It's surely been a while. I'm glad to hear that you've been well, though. Did you manage to do anything fun on the three day weekend (or this one, actually)?

    A mini-vacation sounds great. When are you going? And what will you be doing?

    I've been alright, I suppose. Keeping busy and enjoying the sun. Managed to go for a dip, which is always nice. Been shopping way too much, too. xD Yuy.

    I'm sorry it took a while for me to reply as well. I've been away the last few days, so I'm slowly just catching up with stuff now. I hope that finals are going okay!
  10. Spellbound
    June 8th 2010 02:42 AM - permalink
    Spellbound
    Aww that's so sweet.
    Love you <3 xx

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    Hi there! I'm Robin, one of TeenHelp's Project Coordinators. You'll almost certainly see me around, whether it's on the front end (Forums, Chat Room, etc.) or back end (Staff areas).

    Being a Staff member is pretty cool, so if you're interested to learn more, send me a message!

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    1. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California.

    ***PLEASE NOTE, I cannot assess, diagnose, or treat you via TeenHelp.*** When I'm here, I'm serving as a peer mentor (who happens to have a whole lot of education and experience to back up their statements). With that being said, I'm happy to help you find a mental health professional, should TeenHelp be inadequate for meeting your needs!

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    2. I joined TeenHelp in June 2009 (over a decade ago!).

    I used to be an administrator for another website and was looking for mental health resources to share with our members. I happened to come across TeenHelp, and it was love at first sight. I settled into the "Relationships and Dating" forum and decided to apply for Staff as soon as I could!

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    3. I've been a Staff member since July 2009 (again, over a decade ago!).

    When I think back on how many different roles I've held over the years, it's truly mind-boggling! Here's a timeline for those who are interested:

    HelpLINK Mentor - July 2009
    Forum Moderator - December 2009
    Article Editor (now known as Publications Editor) - June 2010
    Social Networking Officer - May 2011
    Volunteering Officer - October 2012
    Project Advisor (now known as Lead Moderator) - April 2014
    Operations Team Leader - March 2015
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    I've also served on various committees and teams, some of which have been discontinued or integrated into Staff roles over the years:

    Social Networking Team - May 2010
    Operations and Procedures Committee - August 2010
    Disputes Committee - December 2011
    Performance/Volunteering Committee - March 2012
    Videos Team - January 2014

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    4. Hugh Jackman is my celebrity crush. ♥

    Every time I change Staff roles, I change my Hugh Jackman avatar (so no, that is not a picture of me, LOL).

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    5. I'm old (*GASP!*).

    Okay, 30 doesn't really feel old to me, but I realize it's old compared to the majority of TeenHelp members. The truth is that I found TeenHelp when I was 20 years old (just barely out of my teens), so I've always been on the older end of the membership spectrum. I'd like to think that I can use my life experiences to connect in meaningful ways, vs. being another stuffy adult who acts like they know it all (because I definitely don't!).

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    6. I've been married for over five years.

    My husband is the love of my life - and believe me, it was a journey to find him! One of the reasons why I connected with the "Relationships and Dating" forum is because I've had my fair share of difficult relationships. Some were abusive (in more ways than one). Others were just downright challenging due to the long-distance aspect or religious/philosophical differences.

    Being a mental health professional doesn't make our relationship immune to miscommunications or arguments. I'm not perfect, and neither is my husband. At the end of the day, we make the conscious choice to love each other in big and small ways. We accept that we're flawed human beings, and we try to learn from our mistakes!

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    7. I've been diagnosed with a mental health disorder.

    This is something I rarely talk about publicly, but I'm open to sharing details privately. You probably wouldn't know I have a mental health diagnosis if you met me face-to-face, but a person can be highly functional and still struggle on a daily basis. I go through phases where I become emotionally and physically drained, and that's incredibly frustrating. However, I don't give up on myself. I go to therapy nearly every week to address my triggers and unhelpful ways of thinking about myself, others, and the world as a whole. I'm a huge fan of self-awareness, self-care, and self-compassion.

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    8. I'm white and nerdy (anyone get the reference?).

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    I haven't always been able to travel (it's hard to find the time or money when you're in graduate school or working as an unpaid intern), but now that I'm in a different phase with my life and career, my husband and I try to plan a few trips each year. Some of my favorite destinations have been NYC, Chicago, Kauai, St. Croix, and Thailand!

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    10. I'm obnoxiously optimistic and solution-focused.

    We may be hardwired for negativity, but that doesn't mean dwelling on problems helps us in the long run. So while I may acknowledge the issues that brought you to TeenHelp, I'm determined to focus on what we can improve upon. Change is possible. You may not be able to change your environment right away, but you can start to change your mindset right now (and now... and now!). It may take a great deal of effort (after all, you're learning new habits!), but my experience has been that the hard work is worth it.

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    “In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for [their] own personal growth?”
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