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I doubt it

That's okay I am sorry I wasn't on for a bit my internet thing broke ! How are you doing ? HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!

Thanks for the warm welcome, I'm good thanks, I love this site. I used 2 feel so unsecure. R u also gay? I've always wondered wat I should do if I met a gay guy (my age) face 2 face. Any ideas?

Thanks you too

Of course, Tay. You're welcome.

I think I did it

Good thank you for welcoming me. Is this a website where it's okay to have the Avatar as a picture of yourself or no? lol

I know what you mean, I'm the same way.

I'm always here for you, if you ever need anything or just somebody to talk to.

Well thank you I actually only joined this site because mentoring is something that I have always been passionate about. I love people & I feel like they should love themselves as well, & what is better than a stranger telling them all the wonderful things they don't realize about themselves? I'm good, how are you?

You have to give yourself time. Just because they're not looking at the past and (may have) moved on, doesn't mean you have to. Your emotions are valid, & you were grieving the loss of a relationship, you were in mourning basically.

I really appreciate you holding on for me, but you gotta do it for yourself too, Tay. I know how hard it is, trust me, I do. Promise. But you gotta realize, that there may come a time when the people you were hanging on for won't be there.

Don't break down, because of what I just said. Look at it from a logical point of view. People change, and come and go. If you are holding on for them, being strong for them, and they leave, where does that leave you?

I just don't want to see you hurt, Tay. Or worse, gone. I care too much, k?

So, just try and be strong for yourself, because you want to be happy. That's what I try and do. I think to myself "It has to get better, it has to. So I gotta fight, to make it happen sooner. I don't want to hurt the people that matter most to me."

It's good, though, that you want to be an inspiration and be a story to relate to and such. That's awesome.

You're right, everything gets better in the end.