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Hey Abby,
Inviting him to your birthday meal is a good idea, there will be other people around so it shouldn't be so awkward. I don't think that you love him, its probably lust, but that is still a strong emotion. When you see him, you just have to remind yourself that he is just another human being, just like you. He isn't special, he's just another friend of yours. If you say that to yourself enough times you should calm down a little. Being around your friends should also take that nervousness away also. Its a good thing that you're not going out with the guy that likes you because you don't really like him. You shouldn't date someone just to have a bf. I'm sure you will find someone eventually that likes you just as much as you like them.

Best of luck,
Jocie

Hey Abby, thanks for messaging me. My advice would be try starting up a neutral conversation like about school, teachers, or the weather if you've got nothing else lol. Don't make it awkward, just talk to him like you would talk to any other friend. Don't be too clingly, and don't ignore him. If you get too clingy he's going to run away and try to avoid you and I know thats the last thing you want. If you're comfortable doing this, you could talk to him and say that you understand that he doesn't like you the same way that you like him, but ask him if you can still be friends. I'm sure he will be okay with that. Best of luck, and if you have any other questions or anything please message me back.

Have a great day,
Jocie

Are you just gonna ignore my posting on here then?

Hello there HAHAHA how fake did me and Nick's stage kissing look?!

Going to bed now I won't post on any of your threads as I'm kinda biased,. But I want you to know that I am here for you. It may not feel like that sometimes becuase im so jokey and immature, but i am here for you ab ok?

Nat xxxxx

Hey there I'm sorry you feel this way, but you must remember that EVERYONE always feels down at least numerous times in their lives. You say your mates are there but they don't understand? Why don't you talk to them? Or at least talk to those you trust. I'm sure you're mates have problems of your own, please try and remember you aren't the only one feeling like you're 'sinking' others who you see and look perfectly happy could well have the same problems/feelings. Harsh problems? You're going to have to elaborate there im 'fraid. Everything gets on top of you? Are you feeling particularly pressured right now? Look at what is causing that pressure? School? Family/friends? Or are you being too hard on yourself. Nobody's perfect

Glad to help,

Nat x

You're very welcome.

Hey no problem! Always happy to help/welcome! It's what us limey greenies are for Hope you're finding your way round the site ok

PM box is always open if you need a chat!

Regards, Nat,x

What's wrong? x