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yeah my moms said the same thing. i want to give him a chance and mabie with the help of his parents keep putting their foot down on him may help him after a while. they grounded him for A MONTH. becuz of something he did. he cud do nothing really until he was ungrounded. the only thing he really got to do was come over to my friends house with me since hes a relative of her and they live a block away from eachother haha how weird is that?
i know for a fact my dad is bipolar and my mom hast to deal with it almost everysingle day of her life and my mom always tells me to be careful and picky with who you choose and not put up with what they do to you.
it scares me a bit since he told me his dad was bipolar too.
and its genetic, plus he has Adhd but it isnt really that bad since hes on medication and at the most hell get paranoid at times with his parents.
should i watch out for that too? and not go out with him since he cud become bipolar someday? i dont see what the point is since my dad is bipolar also and i cud get it at some point in my life too. its a 50/50 for both of us. me and him, so whats the point? even if i did marry a decent dude i cud end up with the same thing.
what do you think on the bipolar thing?
and when somebodys paranoid how do they act cuz ive never really seen how somebody acts when they r paranoid.

Yeah as soon as he told me i cud understand in a lot of ways why they feel that way, i think ive bene refusing in the past 3 days to understand their point of view and only talking about myself. that is a very good point though.
it just upsets me that had to happen. my mom and my counceler thinks it really has nothing to do with me at all since i know for a fact hes done things with girls before and has probley 20 gfs in the past which im not too worried about,
and i can see why. my counceler and my mom told me it probley doesnt have anything to do with me its just for the fact thats hes probley went to far with girls and i know hes bene in trouble with the police and stuff 2 times, hes gotten kicked out of places, Im pretty sure theyve bene in court for it too and Juvi has talked to them about it and said they have to put their foot down now cuz hes gotten into way too many things. i think they forced him too. he was sad but i honestly thought his parents made him too. and i can see why they r doing that to him now becuz they have to, it probley isnt becuz they want to at all its just something that have to do with him now. and i can see why also becuz his 16 year old sister got pregnant this summer and they r now have a new family member on the way they werent exspecting. she hasnt even finished highschool yet, and im not sure if shes even with the guy anymore. i think that may be a huge reason why too. hes only 13 and they dont want him to make the mistake his father and his sister did. i think in a way its out of respect for me too possibly. idk but do you think that cud be the case and do you think i should go out with somebody like this thats into drugs and stuff? (im not gonna say what hes gotten into but its not like really hard drugs or anything)
and everybody knows hes a player with girls, and i cant trust him becuz of how he treated me the last time we went out before this time, he was a complete jerk.
hes sweeter now but you can never be sure. advise?

Me? okay i guess. me and my bf brokeup on Thanksgiving becuz his parents wont let me and him hangout at all just becuz we kissed! He didnt wanna dump me but he had to, so now i guess were waiting and hoping to be back together soon after his parents forget about it. its honestly a little overboard of how they acted i mean it was just a kiss, i sure wouldnt worry about it that much if my kids were doing that i mean its their relationship hello, but they acted that way and now me and him r friends but we still cannot hangout ):

thats cool

hey how r you?
my sistas comin over to our house from Portland in just a few hours with her crazy family for Thanksgiving (:

Oregon
you?

well thats cool

Oh thats cool

im sorry you were sick that sucks :/

im ok just hanging out

Hey how are you?

ao where you from?