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It was good, I went to town with my mum and we did some Christmas shopping. She enjoyed herself so it made me feel good too and then I came home, cleared out a bunch of stuff like old cards from my previous boyfriend and then I relaxed. That was, until I remembered I missed my doctors appointment on Friday afternoon.

Ahh not really, it's just a logical thing from past experience.

Well I know that! I meant, did you win anything else like an item?

Maybe it's in relation to what's happened to you as of late? Sometimes certain emotions and feelings can be triggered by particular events, sometiems even small things are the cause but they're such small things we don't even realise they're the cause.

Wow that's great Jason! Congratuations! Did you get a prize of any kind?

You told me about what happened with you and the girl you were previously with. Is it about that or is there something else?

Not much just relaxing. Very late night relaxing, but relaxing none the less. How about you?

It might be hard for you but if you allow yourself some space away from her and remind yourself she isn't helping you, use this as a way of saying no. Saying no is difficult but it will get better!

That's very positive thinking, it would have been emotionally destructive for you, especially since you're wanting to be with her but she isn't reciprocating. At least now you'll again, be able to move on, even if it's hard for you, it's the best thing. Whatever her true reasoning for getting with you and constantly parting with you all the time, it may be that underneath she doesn't really know what she wants and you may not be able to be of any help to her. One thing I will ask is, what if she asks to be with you again, what would you say?

Ohhhhh Jason! I'm really sorry! The best thing you can do is just try to move on from her. I know it'll be difficult but it'll be the best thing and soon when you leave school, you can forget about her completely. Then when you go to college etc, you can find someone who will appreciate you very much.

What about from the girl you were with?

Well don't, that's what friends are for.