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Hey, I'm good, thanks How are you?
Good!
Merry Christmas!

I wouldn't be disappointed, you can talk to me about anything.

Yep. It was really good!

I'm ok, was just updating my profile.

Everyone has flaws Jason, some are just more difficult to find than others.

Haha I'm not really that amazing. Just a person.

I decided to split with him because he never bothered to listen to me and when he did, he'd listen but never really 'listen' if you know what I mean. Plus I had this huge health problem and at the time I was in college, 20 hours of revision per week plus homework, trying to deal with family problems and struggling to keep myself going and all he ever wanted was for me to come see him despite saying that he 'understands my commitments'. When I'd finally manage to find time to come over which was usually every Sunday as I'd make sure to keep that day free just so I could see him, it was never enough and he kept wanting to see me too much and I can't deal with over-clinginess. Even when I asked him to back off a bit to give me some space, that lasted 2 weeks and he started all over again. The worst part was when I was finally with him he treated me like I barely existed. We never went anywhere, never did anything. Just took me to his house and did whatever he felt he wanted to do which was never very much. I got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore, for months and months of repeating myself I just gave up and split.

Well, a few months back I got this feeling that my past boyfriend would send me a Merry Christmas message and then I found out about 3 hours ago that he really did too. So I tried to be nice and engage in the conversation and it felt like nothing had changed. Still all one-sided where I make the effort to make conversation and he ends up talking about himself, didn't bother asking how I was or anything like I'd asked him. It was just kind of irritating. I get that he might have just wanted to wish me Merry Christmas and that was that, but I guess I just really dislike it where after everything he's still the same as he used to be, very self-absorbed and well, again, it's just really irritating. :/

That's understandable.

Was just enjoying some gaming though now just uh, well, not really doing much. My thoughts distracted me haha. How about you?

Aww. Would you like to do if you were given the chance?

Thanks Jason.

Ohh I see, sorry to ask but, is it just a thing, or a religious thing?