That's right.
Although people say we have to get out there and find someone, it's not as easy, but it can be that if we just go in a place which shares our interests, it's likely that we'll end up meeting someone. When I was 16 I really wanted relationships with people but I really tried hard to make myself more 'acceptable' so that people would like me more, I guess I just wanted to fit in so people would want to have a relationship with me but I realised doing all of that wasn't worth the effort and then after I stopped trying, I ended up meeting someone at college, 2 years later we started going out and were in a relationship together for nearly 3 years. It's things like that, where we get ourselves out there but don't try to be with someone that we end up finding someone.
I tend to be rather romantic in nature too. I enjoy being romantic and doing little gestures. I can get attached to people really quickly and this has always been my failing. Like with people in the past before I was in a relationship with someone, I'd become really interested in someone and then when I saw them with someone else I'd not feel jealous but kind of wish it was me with them and it was really saddening when I couldn't be with them, especially because the were with someone else. In time I found ways of switching off by drawing on my exercise books in school doing word art or talking to someone else in the class room, at home I did gaming or was in the garden with my mum. Each person's way of switching off and coping with the ability to take their mind off the person they're interested in is different, experiment with ways of doing it for yourself and see which you find works best for you.