Hi cross85, welcome to teenhelp.org, my name is Mia.
I'm one of a team of Buddies here (hence my lime green username) and its my job to help you out and guide you around the site, so if you need anything, just say!
This link is a useful reference on how to use our forums:
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f4-ar...ow-use-forums/
while this one, gives information on the different ways to obtain advice on teenhelp
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f4-ar...dvice-support/
I hope you like the site, and hopefully I'll see you around soon
Mia