Just say you can't really remember and throw out a random number of days and if they ask for clarification just say like "oh I have no clue if that was actually it, I just threw out a number that sounded right".

Okay I'll try that because my one friend asked me when I got back together with him, and I didn't answer him. I just told him to hold that thought. They'll still want me to go into detail, even if I tell them that I got back together with him

I just mean don't go out of your way to tell them this or to explain why you never broke up or any of that. If they ask if you're back just say you are or if they say you should go back say you already have. That way you don't have to go into detail or make up a story or any of that, it's just done with.

I mean I'm not making a big deal out of it. I just understand why they told me that he's not good for me. Now, they want me to get back together with him. I might as well just tell them that we never broke up. They can't even make up their minds

Just clarifying that I have an idea of what I'm talking about. Just don't say anything at all about it and they'll figure it out that you're back together. If they ask if you're back with him just say yeah. No need to make a big deal out of your friends being annoying.

I understand that. I didn't say they were trying to make my life miserable. I just don't like the fact that they were telling me who I shouldn't be with. Now, they're telling me to go back out with them. I might as well just tell them that I never broke up with him

Nope, but I'm on the side of your friends at the moment in the sense that I have to convince my friend that her boyfriend, who has made her cry almost weekly until recently, isn't in her best interest. I'm not saying they're right, I'm just saying I can imagine what's going through their heads. I hope you don't think I'm saying your friends are right, because I'm not. I just mean don't think that they're trying to make your life miserable.

I understand they're trying to think what's best for me, but I'm almost an adult now. I can make my own decisions and I know what's best for me. What's best for me is to stay with my boyfriend because he's willing to be with me forever and he's doing all these nice things for me. None of my boyfriends were like that. He's the only one who shows me that he loves me and willing to be with me. I don't really like being stubborn, but I guess I have to be. You never had to go through something like this, have you?

I know it's not fair to you, but in their eyes they're doing what they think is best for you, so you have to give them that. Just be stubborn with them. I mean all the pestering in the world means nothing so long as you don't act on it

I'm going to take your advice and do what you say. Every time I tell them that I might get back together with him, they're like you don't deserve someone like him. I didn't even tell them what he's taking me for my 18th birthday because I don't want them telling me what to do. Like, I don't annoy them or anything but they have to annoy me about being with my boyfriend, even though we're not together according to them