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Conversation Between Validity and RandomName
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  1. Validity
    December 25th 2012 03:46 AM - permalink
    Validity
    Firstly, I don't think I introduced myself, I'm Jay, sorry, that was rude of me to forget to do so

    Well, there are thousands of things to live for, but it depends on your gender it's different for both, so help me out, male or female?

    Are you calling me stupid? I know the world is a darker place than it should, but to make light, you have to light a few candles (people).
    I attempted suicide, if I'm honest, I didn't see any good in the world, I thought I was destined to be hurt and broken all my life. And then I met my best friend/brother on this site! And he helps pull me back up, to help me back up when I fall. And some days, I regret H calling the paramedics, I thought the world would be better without me in it. But, suicide just isn't worth it, coz, we're all still young, we have a hell of a lot of life left to live, new adventures, new experiences. Just wait and you'll see!

    When I'm in a pit of depression, I think to myself, what good is living when we're only going to die. What good is trying? But I am wrong, we all have a purpose, it isn't the cut, not to find a way out of this world, but to LIVE and to BELIEVE that something good will happen to us.

    Jay.
  2. RandomName
    December 25th 2012 03:22 AM - permalink
    RandomName
    Lol what is there to live for? Exactly.

    There's nothing. People make up stories and excuses but reality is at the end of it all it isn't worth it.

    What's worse is it's not like i'm one of the smart ones that just end themselves. Or the incredibly stupid, who think the world is grand and beautiful. I'm in between, where there's this pathetic piece of hope that drives me on. I'll never get to find it, because you can't fix something that is broken.

    One day i'll die, that is inevitable. All that I hope is that it is sooner than later. I'm tired of false hope, pain, unhappiness, and all of the terrible people on this planet.
  3. Validity
    December 25th 2012 01:58 AM - permalink
    Validity
    Hey there,

    I'm so sorry to hear this I am glad I broke my break to view my notifications.

    Mate, I know how you feel, I've been so hurt myself that I have no faith in humanity as a whole but I try my best to leave a positive impact on the world because, as a quote says, be the change YOU wanna SEE!

    If you really think about it, there is no unselfish good deed, the actual definition of selfish is "doing something for another and feeling good about it, or doing it solely for themself".
    When I try and help people, and receive a message back saying how much I helped them, yes, I feel good, but for them, knowing that I could have just helped them out of the rut even for a brief window of time. Or giving them a piece of advice they really take.
    I try my best to just help people, and I love it. I cannot live without helping another. And I do see where you are coming from, really I do. But, I want to see this world become a bit brighter.
    I suffer from PTSD, depression, self harm, relationships problems, an ED, a few anxiety disorders, but I try and look passed it and usin the wisdom I collected, I try and help somebody who is struggling with what I go through daily.

    The world can be a better place, but we must help this generation to know that there is something much better, that they don't have to cut, they don't have to restrict/binge/purge to feel good about themselves, they don't have to go through their days with a grim expression, that WE can BE the DIFFERENCE!

    Jay.
  4. RandomName
    December 25th 2012 01:51 AM - permalink
    RandomName
    doesn't matter what you say, i'm used to rejection. Used to people talking in a way THEY want, doing things THEY want, and listening to what THEY want.

    All I ever do is submit and deal with everyone else's selfish desires. I have none of my own.


    I was simply advising the person on the reality of the people posting on this forum. It is all they are and all they ever will be. I hate life for it and I hate existing because of it.
  5. Validity
    December 21st 2012 09:52 AM - permalink
    Validity
    Hey there RandomName, I just saw your post on Bonnie's thread about that none of us really care and we are "bolstering our own self worth".
    Firstly, I would like to welcome you to the site.
    Secondly, I'm a buddy and I would wish you would look at the code of conduct, TeenHelp is an advice/help site! We are meant to offer our support and give advice to those hurting, yes, while telling them to cry ins a corner may be "helpful" to release their tension etc. I think we all deserve a little bit of advice. The cry method doesn't work for me anymore, and I can barely cry so telling me to do so would be worthless.

    I'm sorry if I sound harsh, 3 hours sleep does not agree with me.
    And I hope to talk to you soon, without ribbing you of course,

    Jay.
 
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