i see.
have you told the person youre talking to that its really not you who needs the help?
maybe they can do something..

I'm talking to someone, but I don't need to.
Mom does, but she won't.
It's confusing.

Do you talk to someone now? That might help ease the pain on your end, and ultimately calm your mom.

She just yells random bullshit at us.
And she went and talked to someone once, and she never went back. She won't go back. :/

although i can't directly relate, my best friend's mom passed some years ago and i know her father had a difficult time coping too. but have you tried getting her to talk to someone, like a professional, if she isnt already? and how is she taking it out on you, what's she saying/doing?

I know she's having a hard time. She's taking it out on us :/

i'm so sorry to hear that you lost your father =/. do you think possibly she's having a hard time dealing too, so she's being.. over the top with you?

Because my mom won't give me a break. So I can't deal with losing my dad without her being all up in my business.

i know exactly what you mean... 4 nights ago was my first after that long break.. it's hard, i'm here for you.
why'd you do it? if you feel more comfy tlking about it thru PM dont hesitate

Last night was the first night I cut in about a month, which is a long time for me, believe it. :/