I hope you feel comfortable with this new one and that she helps u get better

this is a therapist I used to have she gave up on me I have a new one now. Thanks since shes not my therapist any more I guess Im allowed ot feel the way I want to about her I cant deny my feelings.

Hey Lauri,

maybe you have developed this so called "transference" feeling for your therapist or something like that. As u are very close to her, in the sense that u tell her ur problems, the things that happen to you and in a way u share ur life with her, and she understands and is there for you, you have come to see her as someone important in our life, like a friend or something, and not just a professional, which would be completely normal because it's nice having someone to talk to, but there's also a line, and you're not friends, she's just there to help u as a professional. And all this could count more than the harm she's caused u...

Or maybe I'm completely wrong! But what I know is that it is important that u see ur therapist as someone to guide u, not someone u depend on. She's there to teach u how to deal with ur life, but not to tell u how to live it and in the end you are going to be alone and need to learn to cope with ur life without the therapist's help...

Im not going to to tell you everythinjg because it would literaly be a novel she just hurt me very badly by not carring playing games with me not literaly games. Also hurting me by being mean to me and her always acting like poor me poor me makeing things drama when they didnt have to be. Thats about it and yeah I dont understand why I want her back either when she hurt me. Maybe I still like her not liek that im straight even though she hurt me.