Hey there! I just answered your post in the forums and I thought I'd come by and say hi since you're new to the site
I'm Estelle, and I'm a Community Mentor on here, which means I'm around to answer any questions and make sure new users feel comfortable on the site. Community Mentors always have green usernames, so you can reach out to any of us if you ever have a question about the site!
I hope the situation with your boyfriend works out okay. I've been in a similar spot before and it wasn't fun so I kinda get how it feels, and I'm always up for a chat if you want to talk about it (or anything else)! I hope I see you around the site!
~Estelle