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Conversation Between PSY and Moxie.
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  1. PSY
    March 13th 2012 01:36 AM - permalink
    PSY
    The schoolwork hasn't been terribly hard for me - then again, schoolwork has never been difficult for me. As a graduate student, the hardest thing is time management... so if you can figure that out in undergrad, you're good to go! =D

    I think the hardest thing about becoming a therapist is learning the basics, and then figuring out how to apply them in therapy. I've been warned by several people that therapy will feel "awkward" for a good year, at LEAST. Therapy isn't what people on TeenHelp usually expect. A therapist doesn't just sit in a chair and have a casual, buddy-to-buddy conversation, nor are they advice-givers. You're developing certain skills, which include both emotional (ex. empathy, managing your own negative feelings) and technical (ex. assessing for suicidality, implementing therapeutic strategies/tools to suit the client's needs). It's exhausting work, and it can be unfulfilling at times because you won't see changes in the clients overnight. If your heart is in the right place, though, the pros will definitely outweigh the cons. =)
  2. Moxie.
    March 12th 2012 02:37 PM - permalink
    Moxie.
    Okay, sweet. So, what's the hardest part about becoming a therapist? Is it the schoolwork or something else?
  3. PSY
    March 12th 2012 08:35 AM - permalink
    PSY
    No, I don't believe so. You're looking at four years of undergraduate school, two years of graduate school, then 3000 hours of supervision (which is about 1.5-2 years of full-time work), then the licensure exam. By the time you become a therapist, you will have spent 8+ years preparing for the job... meaning that no one will doubt your competency. Worst-case scenario, my guess, is that you'll just be asked to cover up the scars.
  4. Moxie.
    March 12th 2012 05:49 AM - permalink
    Moxie.
    Do you think the fact that I have visible, but faded scars will hurt my chances of actually getting a job as a therapist?
  5. PSY
    March 12th 2012 05:47 AM - permalink
    PSY
    Absolutely, but it will depend on how invested you are in your own mental well-being. There are psychological professionals who suffer from all sorts of problems - even schizophrenia! With the right amount/type of "self-care," though, they are able to help others and become successful in their field of work. =)

    (And if this was going to be one of your question: no, being hospitalized, medicated, etc. will not hurt your chances of getting into a clinical psychology program. One of my cohort mates was placed in in-treatment for several months due to a mental health issue. She has to constantly monitor her mental well-being, but she has been quite successful at her practicum site.)
  6. Moxie.
    March 12th 2012 03:54 AM - permalink
    Moxie.
    So, I want to be a therapist for 2 reasons. The first is similar to yours - I've been through a lot and I'm still going through a lot. Before I was hit rock bottom, I refused to ask for help. It sucked going through everything by myself. I want to do this because I never want someone else to have to go through this alone. The other reason is because of the fabulous counselor that I'm seeing now.

    Anyways, the point to that little background story is this: do you think I'll honestly be able to help people, even though I'm such a basket case myself?
  7. PSY
    March 12th 2012 03:40 AM - permalink
    PSY
    It was the accumulation of several events. I had a difficult time in middle school, and not only was I unaware of how to obtain help, but the school's administrators were as well. Later on, I wanted to study psychology in order to better understand what happened to me, as well as to educate others. What made me decide to pursue therapy as a career, however, was a number of events with friends and fellow high school students. I was part of a peer support group, where I was able to speak with teens one-on-one who had been referred by the school for various reasons (drug possession, self-harm, domestic violence, new to the school, etc.). Again, it frustrated me that I wasn't educated about psychology in general, and that I had limitations as a student. Once I realized that I needed to obtain a license of some sort in order to perform certain actions (ex. assessing/diagnosing, committing clients to involuntary hospitalization for their safety, etc.), I started doing my research and ultimately chose to become a marriage and family therapist in the state of California. =)
  8. Moxie.
    March 12th 2012 02:42 AM - permalink
    Moxie.
    Don't worry about not being able to answer everything. I know you've only seen one client. By the way, congratulations on a successful first appointment! Psychology is just something I'm thinking about pursuing when I go to college.

    First of all, what made you want to become a therapist? It's just something I'm kind of curious about.
  9. PSY
    March 12th 2012 02:37 AM - permalink
    PSY
    Hey there! I've seen you around as well, and it's great to finally talk to you. =)

    I'll gladly answer any questions I can about psychology, therapy, grad school, etc. Keep in mind that I'm not a therapist yet, so I may not be able to answer all of your questions; however, I can always ask my professors. =D
  10. Moxie.
    March 12th 2012 01:35 AM - permalink
    Moxie.
    Hey Robin. I don't think we've ever actually talked, but I've seen you around the site a lot. I just wanted to drop by and say hello. Oh, and I was wondering if I could ask you a couple questions about being a therapist.
 
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