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Conversation Between PSY and lauri
Showing Visitor Messages 51 to 60 of 63
  1. lauri
    February 11th 2012 01:53 AM - permalink
    lauri
    One last thing you do hurt people. I know this because you really hurt me Im crying and may do the c word. You dont seem to care you will be friends with other people on here but not me thats very mean and hurtful snd not fair when I did nothing to you. I was not hostile bec im a nice person I was just upset and if your a so called therpsit you would have known that. Please do NOT be a therapist you can not truley care about people. Just leave me like every one else does sooobb }:
  2. lauri
    February 11th 2012 01:29 AM - permalink
    lauri
    No Im sorry YOU FEEL THAT WAY. You hurt me and you dont even care }: sooooobbbbb your a horrible therapist. please be my friend im not hostile im a nice person im just hurt thats all. Ill do anything that you want just be my friend pleaseeeeeeeee. dont abandon mee sooob you hurt me. when i feel hurt I feel like doing the c word. and you dont even care sooob you dont care oy uhurt me sooooooobb.
  3. PSY
    February 11th 2012 12:46 AM - permalink
    PSY
    I am sorry you feel that way. For the record, I do not hate you. I will not, however, continue to talk to someone who is hostile toward me. I wish you all the best, and encourage you seek help with those whom you feel are trustworthy.
  4. lauri
    February 11th 2012 12:46 AM - permalink
    lauri
    you know I was a live help assocuiate before and Im a veyr nice person and people loved me and loved my advice. I just took a little break so I have to sign up again. But this time im signed up for help link I love to help people and im understanding compassionte and nice and give great advice. I hope I get the postion. Thats what im saying your getting stuck in this professional crap. Yes what im saying is real and it happend and my ways are RIGHT there what patients need. BE MY FRIEND PLEASE DONT LEAVE MEEEEEEE SOOBB }:
  5. lauri
    February 11th 2012 12:42 AM - permalink
    lauri
    You hurt me }: I HATE YOU . IM literaly having a panic attack right now and you do NOT CARE. SOOBBBBB YOU HURT MEEEEE. YOUR MEAN YOU WONT BE MY FRIEND THAT HURTSSS. Im literaly about to cryyy }:
  6. PSY
    February 11th 2012 12:37 AM - permalink
    PSY
    First of all, I do not accept friend requests on TeenHelp unless I am actually friends with that member. I have just met you, and aside from this conversation about what makes someone a "good" or "bad" therapist (which, by the way, has consisted primarily of hostile language directed toward me), I do not know anything about you; therefore, how can I consider you a friend at this point in time? I would need to get to know you better, but so far, I have not had that opportunity.

    Secondly, why would I WANT to accept a friend request from someone who essentially says they feel sorry for me because I do not view therapy in the same way that they do? Why would I WANT to call someone my friend when all they have done so far is criticize me? Keep in mind that I have never personally attacked you as a person - rather, I have presented my ideas of what I view is appropriate for therapy and for therapist/client relationships. I do not claim to have all the answers. No one does. I do, however, believe I am entitled to speak my opinion regarding certain issues, especially since I have been receiving training. I am in no way putting you down, and I never have. I am only trying to share information with you and with other members based on my personal and professional experiences. Perhaps you will feel differently in the future when you are in a professional program, or perhaps you will hold on to this mentality. Either way, it does not matter to me. What DOES matter to me is that I have been confronted by you time and time again, and I do not appreciate that.

    So am I going to accept your friend request? Not at this point in time. Am I going to ignore you? No, because I don't feel that is appropriate given my position as a staff member. Do I have any particular desire to talk to someone who is hostile toward me, though? No, and if you don't like that, I am okay with it. If you feel I have been unprofessional as a staff member, you are welcomed to report me to the Performance Committee.

    I honestly do wish you all the best; however, I am finding it very difficult to continue speaking with you directly under these circumstances, save for when I am performing my duties as a forum moderator.
  7. lauri
    February 11th 2012 12:26 AM - permalink
    lauri
    thanks for confirming the friend request NOTTT. what do you hate me or something when I did nothing to you.
  8. lauri
    February 11th 2012 12:25 AM - permalink
    lauri
    Thanks for writting back to me NOTTT. I have a bad feeling about you that your going to turn out like these bad therapist. I feel sorry for you that you wont listen to me like the other therapist wont listen to me on what there doing wrong. Well I guess its your losss Im going to do the right thing what I know is right. Im scared if you turn out like them bec if you are dont be a therapist pleasee. You r going to hurt some one and that makes me mad that your going to if you become like them.
  9. lauri
    February 10th 2012 02:24 AM - permalink
    lauri
    Yeah peopel say Im trying to prove Im bettr than her. But Im really not the reason why I want to be a therapist is because I NEVER WANT SOME ONE TO FEEL THE WAY I DO. I know how much it hurts I have been torn down not cared by by therapist like i should have and I went home evry day and cried barley could get out of bed bec of them pop pills cut. It still hurts to this day and I have told my self I NEVER WANT SOME ONE TO FEEL THE WAY I DO so i want to be a therapist to make sure they feel the love and comfort and carring that a therapist should give them that will be me. I will be the most talked about therapist every one will want to see me because Ill have more compassion than any therapist ever and will go out of my way to help some one bec I truley care. God wants us to truley care about people not just give up on them. I will NEVER give up on my patients no matter what. I love helping people.
  10. PSY
    February 10th 2012 01:20 AM - permalink
    PSY
    There are "good" and "bad" professionals in every field - not just therapy. I'm sorry you had that experience, and in a way, I can understand why you feel the need to counter the "bad" professionals by becoming a "good" professional. One thing I want to warn you against, though, is letting that mentality be at the forefront of your mind when pursuing a career in therapy. Do it because you want to help people. Do it because it gives you fulfillment. Don't do it so you can prove you're better than someone you met in the past.
 
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