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Conversation Between PSY and lauri
Showing Visitor Messages 31 to 40 of 63
  1. lauri
    February 27th 2012 12:35 AM - permalink
    lauri
    Reply pleaseee {:
  2. PSY
    February 22nd 2012 06:47 AM - permalink
    PSY
    No, your PM wasn't too long. I had a 16 hour day, so while I've been checking TeenHelp during my breaks, I haven't had a chance to sit down and type out a long response. I will do so tomorrow, so hang in there - I promise I'll get around to it. =)
  3. lauri
    February 22nd 2012 05:01 AM - permalink
    lauri
    ?? are you going to pm me are you going to answer me in pm. Am I bugging you because I hate bugging people. I just dont want every thing out in open thats all thats why I pm you. The stuff I wrote you here could you reply back to that too in pm as well. Do you want to talk to me ??? Was my pm too long??
  4. lauri
    February 22nd 2012 12:17 AM - permalink
    lauri
    Thanks, Im not rude though Im really nice {: if you ever need help with something I can help you. I dont know if Ill be a therapist Im still taking my basics right now. How long does bachlors take to get seems like you got it quick. I hope being a therapist is easy like the classes. I sent you a pm(private message) if you dont mind its kinda long but I just want you to know what Im dealing with }: I know college is stressfull and top of that finding time to sleep but if you could read it please and write back if you care. Hope your first patient went well. Im sure the patient was as nervous as you so dont worry. The patient can tell your young I saw a young therapaist for like 2 days and Im like really your soo young aww. If I was a intern like you I wouldnt do the give your email or phone number thing to some of your patients till after you graduate just a tip. So how did your first patient go I know you cant say much because of confidential but where you panicking like felt you didnt know what to say. Some times I feel therapist dont talk enough which bothers me like there just lazy just sittign and listning. Well you can get back to me in pm okay please.
  5. PSY
    February 21st 2012 05:43 AM - permalink
    PSY
    Sorry, I'll clarify. What I meant to say is that I only know what I've seen over the past week and a half. Meaning, I've only seen one side of you. I haven't seen you when things were going well with work and other areas of your life. I've only seen the hurting, angry Lauri. What I'm trying to say is that it wouldn't be fair for me to say, "you'll never be a therapist," because for all I know, you were a great potential therapist before all of this happened! As of right now, you're hurting and need some time to learn from everything that's happened. If you can manage to do that, though, it'll make you a stronger person, and you can use that in your pursuit of a career as a therapist.
  6. lauri
    February 21st 2012 05:39 AM - permalink
    lauri
    I never said I met you in person. We still can be friends on teenhelp. I see what I did Im going to pm you if you dont mind.
  7. PSY
    February 21st 2012 05:25 AM - permalink
    PSY
    Lauri, I don't know you outside of TeenHelp, and I didn't know you before all of these difficult things happened to you. Maybe you will become a therapist someday... if that is a dream you want to hold on to, then don't give up on it! A good therapist needs to be aware of their own weaknesses, though. I am NOT saying that you are weak, but I AM saying that you are hurting, and that hurt has clouded your better judgment at times. Once you reach a better place in your life, you very well COULD go on to become a therapist.

    I don't think anyone is a lost cause. I really don't. People go through difficult times, and when they're hurting, it can be hard to pull themselves out of emotional ruts. It may mean waiting a certain amount of time and learning from certain experiences. It may mean meeting the right people at the right times. I hope that you can see TeenHelp, and everything that has happened on this website over the past week or so, as a learning experience, as an opportunity to honestly evaluate yourself and figure out what you can do to reach a better place emotionally. I don't believe your dream of being a therapist has to end here - not if you're willing to keep growing as an individual.
  8. lauri
    February 21st 2012 05:16 AM - permalink
    lauri
    Im crying }: because IM about to tell you the honest truth that is a fact and im cryign because its the truth and I dotn want it to be but it is.That IM never going to be a therapist cryign harder its the truth and by saying this Im no longer lieing to myself and keeping in the crying letting it out. IM not rude IM really not something you dont know about me Im a huge animal lover I have a gift people say with animals my pets are my kids or my sister when they die I grieve very heavily even though no one understands pet loss.I hope you have a good life I really do and I hope your bf does not leave you or hurt you i really mean that. Good luck with your first patient tomorrow Im kinda worried but I jsut have to give that worry to god because its your life and I told you what patients really need . They need hugs, let them email you, let them have your phone number too. Truley care please gosh I feel like Im writting a good bye suicide letter.
  9. PSY
    February 21st 2012 05:08 AM - permalink
    PSY
    You're not worthless, Lauri. You're just rude... and you're reading my visitor messages, which I don't really appreciate, either. I would talk to you if you didn't treat me and other staff members so horribly. Look, I get it, you're hurting. We ALL get that. If you want help, though, you need to calm down and treat us the way you would like to be treated - which means 1) not being emotionally manipulative by typing "SOBBBBBB" and similar phrases, 2) staying on-topic in threads, 3) taking responsibility for your violations of the rules, 4) LEARNING from those mistakes and APPLYING what you've learned on TeenHelp. If you can manage to wrap your head around that and make a few simple changes in your attitude, you'll find that people on TeenHelp (myself included) will be MORE than happy to be your friend and talk to you.
  10. lauri
    February 21st 2012 05:00 AM - permalink
    lauri
    You just think you have the pefect life dont you soobbbbbbbbb not fair I FEEL SO ALONEEEEEE. YOU HAVE A BF and had to spend all week with him valentimes WHAT DID YOU GET A LOT OF LOVEEE . so not fairr }: IM SO SCARED OF HAVEING A BF BECAUSE IM SCARED OF THE BREAK UP AND HURTS. I DONT KNOW WHY BUT I FEEL VERY SAD AND ANGRY AND WHEN PROBABLY CRY MY SELF TO SLEEP TONIGHT I FEEL LONELY }: ALSO WHAT REALLY HURTS ROBIN AND YOU dont seem to care it hurts me is you will be other people on teen help friends but not me why not me not fair thats hurt fulll }: Why cant you tell em what you do too or how you are }: Why cant you ask how I am. I KNOW ITS BECAUSE IM WORTHLESSSSSS.
 
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