Thanks, Merryy Christmas {: I sent you a request on msn to chat hopefully it works been haveing promblems with it. You still can pm me any time im here for you {: huggss

ah, well it's amazing that you went a year without,welldone for that. yeah i guess, but it's more that it just gets rid of everything.
my yahoo is : jessgates@rocketmail.com
merry christmas <3

Yes of course you can keep talking to me {: I am your friend I trully care. Thats good you dont do it a lot. Im working on self harm myself I was cut free for a whole year thought i was done with it but then i went back to it after the year 2 times so mad at myself for that. Every one gets moody you can find ways to calm your self not using self harm like screaming in a pillow or breaking penicils. Take care do you have yahoo messagner? if so Ill see if I can add you my yahoo messagner mine is chrissey40@ymail.com add me and ill accept and then we can chat on there if you have it. I like therapy I just like getting the stuff out and not being called werid by the therapist. take care and see if you have yahoo messagner please {: You can pm again {:

hey,
i see your point, and i only do it, like, once a month or every 2 weeks now (well, the serious stuff, i don't really count a digging in my nails or shit like that) and it's not all of my life. it's barely part of it really. i'm just failing to see why it's so bad, since i only use it to stop myself from getting moany and self-centered. it's so i can think beyond my own emotions, and about others. i'm not, idk, in pain or something, it's just more convenient. i've done it recently, so i'll be completely fine for at least another 10 days, but i'll talk to you next time.
Nah, tbh i don't really believe in therapy, i'm too stubborn for it to really sink in. I really appreciate this though, so can i keep talking with you?
Merry Christmas <3

Your welcome any time [: No its not bad like your not going to die if you self harm but it s just not good for your body to be loosing unnesary blood and having scars. Also cutting or whatever self harm, means your hurting inside and to let go of that hurt just a little can feel so good. Like I said any time you need to talk just pm me or you can yahoo message me or email me whatever i check allmost every day and if your about to cut just dont cut and go talk to some body instead of cutting be it some one in your family or a close friend or me. Breaking pencils also helps me to not cut sounds werid I know but that has helped me too. No you can go with out self harm for a while I know you can you can do it. Self harming just keeps you in that dark hole but once you fight it and stop you are no longer a prisoner to self harm you are FREE. Not saying it will be easy but try and try and never give up. Like I said before whats ever causeing you to self harm talk to some one about it instead of harming yourself maybe get a therapist no shame in that. Its not really about being reasonable its more about working through these issues. Pm me any time or email me chrissey40@ymail.com I really do care huggss backkk. {:

Thanks, for that. I guess I need to remember it.
I know it's not all bad, but I get narrow-minded if I haven't SI'd for a while. I should be more reasonable now .
Hugs <3

Hi welcome to teenhelp {: I replied to one of your post in the support forums i hope you read it and that I helped you. Please email me if you need any help or you can yahoo message me chrissey40@ymail.com.