on your post here: http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f6-se...wait-have-sex/

i would say this as a general rule with guys . . "love em and leave em" most guys are purely physical and want a quickie and nothing else. they will lie, tease, play, commit, etc. to get a "piece" which is the term guys give girls between each other when they are trying to "get one" . . I've even seen guys pass a girl from one to the other through broken relationships and fall out romance until the girl ended up back with the original guy again. i personally never liked the idea and never participated. i was 18 when i had sex for the first time and was married. I'm glad that's the way i did it and i wouldn't change that format for anything in the world.

now, I've learned this about girls and guys, "no sex = love" that is, if you don't give a guy sex and he hangs around then he loves YOU and not a PART of you. :-)