Hi Rachel! Welcome to TeenHelp. My name is Michael. I saw you were new here and figured I'd drop by. You should go to the How to Obtain Advice or Support thread. It's very helpful, and will get you started here. After, feel free to introduce yourself at the Arrivals and Departures section to get acquainted with other users. Lastly, if you need anything, feel free to Private Message me. I read your post recently, and come from a similar back ground. I've found it's best just to get to know them and go with the flow. Let me know if I can be of help. Have a great day!!