no ive never really gotten verry specific and i know i should its just i dont wanna cry in front of her, i hate crying in front of ppl! and i know if i start describing how i feel ill start crying. and i dont think it will change anything, i mean i feel like this is just how she is.

Hmm well that's quite tricky if she isn't listening. Have you been really specific as to what she's been doing that's upsetting you?

ya but im not sure how to get her to understand how i feel, like i tell her she doesnt listen to me and she'll say 'you dont listen to me" i know complaining isnt the right way to get her to understand but i dont know how to say what i mean without complaining..

Aww I'm sorry to hear that
Have you tried talking to her about this? Communications very important in any kind of relationship and she may not even realize that you feel this way.

well i feel like she doesnt hear me when i talk to her, like ill say something and shell change the subject like she doesnt care about what i have to say or she'll tell me to do something ellse like if nothing i say is right. and it kinda hurts that she's constantly talking care of my brother and talking on the phone with my sister and she doesnt seem to have anytime for me, its allways been like this maybe because im more like my dad wile my sister and brother take after her and so im more of a daddy's girl. but because of that its like i cant even talk to her anymore and i feel verry allone in my house

How's your mom asking?
And you are very welcome

thx, i know it has to get better... i thought i was getting better since a long ish time has passed since it happened , its just the way my mom is acting lately makes me miss him more. thanks for listening to me nicole

Well at least you still get to go stay with him sometimes.
I can relate- my parents have been divorced for quite a few years now. And it does get better. It will be tough at first as you all adjust, but I promise you it gets easier.

i cant live with him because he lives far from my school and they already arenged with the court that i would stay with him one week end every month and during half of the breaks

its hard to get ahold of him with the phone because he still only has a cell phone and he keps forgeting it places and its not only talking its more than that that i miss