yeah, i think the borderline is probably why you're feeling like this. I also think that your therapist has a right to privacy outside of work. Yes, she should really know that anyone can see her profile if she doesn't change her account settings, but I think that you also have a responsibility to respect and understand boundaries. How would you feel if as a therapist, one of your clients was phoning you constantly, sending rude emails and finding you on facebook and printing off your photos? Personally, I think you should be honest with her, because I think she deserves the chance to change her settings to private. She is your therapist, but she has a right to a social life and she has the right to privacy. Sorry if that sounded rude, but I really think that printing off her photos is crossing the line, Lauri. I know you want to be close to her, but she has to have proffessional boundaries or she will end up taking her work home with her and that will cause a great deal of stress for her. If you respect her, then I really hope you will tell her.

Im still laughing hystarically while trying to cover my mouth so I dont wake people in my house up. OMGOMG I JSUT KNOW IM GOING TO START LAUGHING HYSTRICALLY IN HER OFFICE WHEN I SEE HER AND SHE WILL PROBably be liek what and i cant say what LOLOL I DOTN KNOW WHY IM LAUGHING SO HARD OVER THIS

First I want to say I have borderline and a mood disorder so this might be why im feeling this way. BUT I JUST HIT THE JACK POD WITH SOMETHING AND IT IS I found my therapist fb and she has every thing where it is seen that means I can see her pictures yes pictures

IM LITERALLY RIGHT NOW LAUGH HISTARICALLY I DONT KNOW WHY AND THE PICS ARENT THAT FUNNY I JUST FEEL SO CLOSE TO HER NOW AND IM NOT GOING TO BLOW IT BY TELLING HER I FOUND HER FB BECAUSE THEN SHE WOULD BLOCK ME AN DI WOULDNT BE ABLE TO SEE ANY THING.

IM GOING TO PRINT THE PICS OFFF OMG WHY AM I LAUGHING HISTARACIALLY WHY I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND . IM LAUGHING HISTARACIALLY AND A TTHE SAME TIME FEELING LIKE CRYING AND IM GETTING REALLY SWEATING I GUESS BECAUSE IM A LITTLE NERVOS

BUT IM SO EXCITEDDDDDDDDDDD. I HIT THE JACK POT ON THIS ONE MY LAST THERAPIST i COULDNT SEE ANY THING ON HER FB.

why do you think im laughing histaracially at her fb lik eevery pic i see i laugh when its not funny and every new info i find out about her im just laughing hystaracially right nowww i have no clue why do you have a idea why OMG OMG I WAN TTO TELL HER SO BAD BUT I KNOW IF I DO ILL SPOIL IT FOR MYSELF SO GOT TO KEEP MY BIG MOUTH SHUT

ooh! what is it?

omg omg i have to tell you something its juicy you will want to know

Yeah part of it is that we're demanding. Also the mood swings are difficult to handle. People tend to feel like they're treading on eggshells around us because they don't want to say/do something and have us take it the wrong way. Also self harm/suicidal tendancies are very tricky to deal with.

I also get very upset at rejection, but whereas you seem to get very close to people and then get upset when they can't answer your phonecalls, I push everyone away so that they can't hurt or reject me. I am very conscious of how people see me, so I put all my energy into keeping up an emotionless mask when around others. I do however have all but one of the symptoms of BPD, I think I just show them in a different way to you. I also make sure not to post without rereading it several times because I'm so scared of coming accross as rude and being rejected for it haha!

It's very strange working with people who have the same disorder as me, but I think it has helped me to understand how I can make others feel and I think I've learnt a lot about myself because of it.

i meant if they dont pick up

You dont act like you have borderline. I dont see how were exhausting and draining is it because were so demanding? Do yuo do the same thing I do Im guessing most bordelriens do where you want your therapist to love you and you call your therapist constantly an dget mad if they pick up and also the same as email.

I saw that your online now. Would you like me to opean live help for you so we can chat there??? Please let me know soon pm me and let me know or email me if you want me to opean it for you so we can chat.

Hugggsss email me if you need t please i dont like this suicide talk at all dont kill yourself.