Well then you should practice and get yourself ready when you have plans to go out. Humans are going to make mistakes, but you don't want to hold yourself back from having a good time.

Yeah, I'm fine when it comes to socialising on facebook/twitter etc. But when it comes to being asked if i wanna go out, i either make up an excuse or say I'll go and then get nervous about it the day before and then not go. It's not good

I'm working through life. You're welcome. Well you can let people know that you exist. Try being more social. Try getting to know other people. See who is your type.

Hi Rachel! How are you! Thank you! that's really nice, i just need general tips/advice on how to stop being a recluse really, and how to stop thinking like a recluse haha. I enjoy being alone too much.

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