Hey, I just read your story... and GOOD FOR YOU! I wish all men could have the courage that you do, to love their partners enough to tell them when they've been unfaithful in some way or another. I know that not all women will stay with their partners after something like that, but it's encouraging to know that some people have integrity, and will give their partners the chance to decide for themselves whether or not they want to remain in the relationship.
And congrats on becoming a HelpLINK mentor!