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Thanks for all the help!

Also, I have to ask... What on Earth is that HP dude in your avatar saying?

I haven't been in the scene all that long. Been going to munches for six months or so. I've had an interest for longer than that, but fewer opportunities to explore it.

There's no need to use toys at all, necessarily, and particularly if your boyfriend is a little shy about kink. You can have satisfying impact play with your bare hands. But if you want a first impact toy, I'd recommend a flogger. Something in soft leather with a lot of fairly short tails, so it's easy to control and not too vicious. They're very versatile: obviously you can hit someone with them in a variety of ways, but you can also trail them across the skin as a nice way to tease someone. And while they take a little practice (beat the shit out of a pillow for a while to get your swing accurate, or get your boyfriend to do the same if he'll be whipping you), they don't take years of training alone on a secluded mountaintop like a bullwhip would. I still get more use out of my short flogger than I do out of any of my other toys.

Also, you didn't ask for this, but a quick guide to hitting: good places to hit are anywhere with a thick layer of fat or muscle. This means the backs of the shoulders, the ass, and the upper thighs. You can hit lightly across most of the rest of the body, but avoid the lower back, the spine, elbows and knees, and the face and neck.

Go for it. Be aware that a Delrin cane will hit harder than a wooden one, though, so if you're used to wood then adjust your swing (or get your boyfriend to adjust his).

Wheeeee!

*flies away*

I want a Firebolt.

Thanks for the reply.

Yeah I want something that means I won't get pregnant, but I refuse to take anything hormonal.

I should probably go to a Family Planning Clinic...

*Googles "PID"*

Ah.

Well Jason and I don't plan on having sex with anyone else so I'm not worried about contracting STIs. (Although I will make us both get tested before we start without condoms.)

I'll definitely check out that LiveJournal community, thanks for the link.

*thinks*

I guess there's nothing I'd like to know in particular. I just wanted to find out your opinion and experience, since I'd never even heard of the ParaGard 'til I read your (old) profile. <3

Lmfao well we'll figure it out

LMFAO your horrid yet I loves you <3 and I'm happy you enjoyed my post :P

Hey Sylvia.

When you have time, would you mind telling me about your experience with the ParaGard (feel free to PM me if you'd rather)? I'm thinking of using it (I need some form of long-term contraception which doesn't involve condoms).

Thanks in advance. x