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Forum: Games and Things March 5th 2025, 08:40 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

It looks like the tables have turned, and I'm not mad about it. He did it to teach me a lesson about how hard your job is; and I ended up proving to them what I've known from day 1. That I'm...
Forum: Why Me? February 26th 2025, 06:56 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If he's gone by then, or doesn't have time, it's fine, but if there's overlap and I don't get a turn this time, it'll tell me everything I need to know.
Forum: Games and Things February 26th 2025, 06:54 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

This documents in writing that I want to talk to him, lets you know that, and also lets you set aside the time for me. This should not concern you if you have done your job. But, this is absolutely...
Forum: Games and Things February 17th 2025, 09:41 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Yes, I called off for the second time in 2 years, because the thought of dealing with you all night, when I'm already sick, and probably won't sleep well, was not appealing. Have fun doing...
Forum: Good Days! February 13th 2025, 06:50 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I get an extra shift with my favorite manager tomorrow

and we're FINALLY on the same page about what my job is supposed to look like, and he's going to work on figuring it out.
Forum: Games and Things February 11th 2025, 07:02 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I have SEVERAL GOOD reasons for not listening to you, but the fact that I buck your authority is all you care about. If you won't listen to why, and you "Don't know what to do anymore" might I...
Forum: Why Me? February 10th 2025, 06:16 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm expecting tomorrow to be a fucking nightmare with her.
Forum: Why Me? February 6th 2025, 07:37 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm pretty sure I'm right that it isn't, but this better not be what it looks like. I at least deserve to be told to my face first!

I hope you're back tomorrow, but I REALLY hope I don't get...
Forum: Games and Things February 4th 2025, 08:50 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

I told her no because I didn't see the text until it was too late. But, if I get another one tomorrow morning still needing me, I'll probably do it
Forum: Games and Things February 3rd 2025, 09:04 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

That I know what I want, but it's not going to work out that way without a miracle or two. The difference between he and I, is that he had what that position requires, in him, and just didn't know...
Forum: Games and Things January 25th 2025, 06:51 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The difference is the power dynamic was flipped. What and how she says things carries a lot more weight than however I do it to you.
Forum: Why Me? January 23rd 2025, 10:22 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It probably doesn't mean that, but you warned me that the possibility is always there; and if it does happen, there's nothing you can do.
Forum: Why Me? January 21st 2025, 02:26 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Okay, so you admit that she sucks at communicating and is part of the problem. But, because she got promoted first, she's allowed to trigger the shit out of me, blame me for everything and be a...
Forum: Games and Things January 19th 2025, 10:01 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Stop making mountains out of molehills, and most of this will go away.

This is going to end with me walking out of a shift. But after over 6 months of trying everything, you've stopped...
Forum: Why Me? January 18th 2025, 10:34 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm actually looking forward to working all weekend because you're in charge. I hope I don't end up disappointed. I know you're going through hell though.
Forum: Why Me? January 17th 2025, 12:23 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't even know if it was about me. It probably wasn't. But, unlike you, I'm not bothered by you potentially talking to management about me behind my back. You're allowed to vent up, just like I...
Forum: Why Me? January 16th 2025, 05:47 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You've been gone enough, when is it her turn?! And I hope it's 1 week and not 2.
Forum: Why Me? January 14th 2025, 10:13 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I know he's doing that for you because of their inventory, but if this means you lose one of your closing shifts, I'm going to be mad.
Forum: Good Days! January 13th 2025, 12:26 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I survived inventory without freaking out, we were done in under 3 hours, and I got to come home and sleep
Forum: Games and Things January 11th 2025, 08:06 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You can hold and communicate the high standards, without making people walk on eggshells around you.
Forum: Why Me? January 9th 2025, 07:02 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, really I just asked without asking. Because I was 99% sure, that even if I didn't ask, you would've offered. And, I gave you an out. These are the kinds of things I wish didn't torture me.
...
Forum: Why Me? January 7th 2025, 08:19 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I think I'm finally done, this makes you worse than them; and that's hard to beat. I'm done with the BS excuses.
Forum: Games and Things December 30th 2024, 06:53 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I should probably give up on it all and just leave, but part of me can't.
Forum: Why Me? December 29th 2024, 09:58 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

WHY THE FUCK AM I ALWAYS WRONG?! I don't even want to bother anymore because my side is never taken, I'm always the problem, I'm always the one in the wrong, even when I'm CLEARLY not; and I'm sick...
Forum: Why Me? December 27th 2024, 07:43 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

This better not be retribution for yelling at you all night. Because that was your fault for not listening to me, and I know you have hours to give.
Forum: Why Me? December 20th 2024, 12:58 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I somewhat accidentally agreed to work 7 days straight. Christmas can't get here soon enough!
Forum: Games and Things December 19th 2024, 09:45 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I can tell you're REALLY struggling. I hate that for you and wish I could help. Seeing this side of you is relatively new for me, you don't have to tell me anything you don't want to, but don't be...
Forum: Why Me? December 17th 2024, 08:44 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Things have escalated, and it's NOT my fault this time. In theory, you already know, so could've brought it up and haven't. But, I'm prepared for you to blindside me and throw me under the bus. ...
Forum: Games and Things December 17th 2024, 07:03 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Had you not blindsided me, I could've told you that everything you said worked both ways. If they go through with this, you won't have me to blame when your shifts go to hell. So, have fun. I...
Forum: Why Me? December 13th 2024, 12:08 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Starting off in a bad place and a shift with my least favorite manager. Tomorrow is going to SUCK

I really wish I could switch days, I'd get my favorite instead of least favorite manager, and a...
Forum: Why Me? December 10th 2024, 11:38 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

We're all exhausted with 2 weeks of extended hours to go (and yet hours are being cut already) Too bad I don't get vacation time, because I need a break.
Forum: Goals and Ambitions December 8th 2024, 04:12 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 117
Posted By Kate*
Re: Accomplishments of 2024

Eventually overcame my fear of cashiering, and successfully held 2 jobs for 6 months, before getting the only full-time, non-management position at my original job; which the manager uses for...
Forum: Why Me? December 6th 2024, 08:53 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

How are you cutting hours already?! Full-time was the best decision I ever made, but if I'm not your next promotion, I'm done. You admit now that you see what's been there all along. So, for the...
Forum: Games and Things December 4th 2024, 09:11 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm not going to lie to myself to make your life easier. If it's as bad as I'm expecting, you're going to hear from me.

It was fine because she has seriously calmed down. But, I'm sure you'll...
Forum: Why Me? December 4th 2024, 09:09 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I REALLY wish I could not work the next 2 days, but I'm too responsible. I now dread every shift with this person, and more often than not, they end in tears; with management taking her side, and...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions November 29th 2024, 10:35 AM
Replies: 9,661
Views: 375,467
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

Survive Black Friday (and Saturday) at work.
Forum: Why Me? November 27th 2024, 08:02 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

PLEASE tell me I'm not getting sick AGAIN, Now is the worst time!
Forum: Why Me? November 25th 2024, 11:04 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If avoiding her at all costs and doing everything in my power to AVOID an issue doesn't work, I give up. This isn't about that anymore, and it CLEARLY goes both ways. If you refuse to see and...
Forum: Why Me? November 24th 2024, 11:02 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I barely see him for the next 2 weeks, but at least he's not gone anymore. And as much as I HATE that she got both Black Friday and Saturday off, she's one less thing to put up with on the most...
Forum: Good Days! November 22nd 2024, 07:21 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

My favorite manager should be closing more weekends. If I have to work weekends during the holidays, at least he'll be there to keep me half way sane.
Forum: Why Me? November 22nd 2024, 07:11 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I've turned into the Grinch, I want Christmas over with so I can breathe again. Every year I say this, but I don't think we're going to make it.
Forum: Games and Things November 20th 2024, 07:34 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

With the amount of call-offs, I'm half expecting to have you all to myself for the next 2 days. But, I'd reach out to your boss before you have to do another 14-hour day.
Forum: Games and Things November 18th 2024, 09:43 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

I think it's definitely working, but I still need a day off.
Forum: Games and Things November 14th 2024, 07:14 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

So, she's allowed to be a bitch according to multiple people, and get promoted, but I can't be promoted and remain sarcastic, which appears to bother no one. Just tell me to get taller and we can...
Forum: Games and Things November 12th 2024, 07:44 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I can only hope that you'll finally see what I'm talking about and appreciate everything I do. You say it, but I'm not sure you REALLY get it. But, if you don't fully appreciate me now, you might...
Forum: Games and Things November 10th 2024, 08:24 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I give up, either someone else will have to say something to you about it, or you'll have to see for yourself. I wish there was a definite I told you so coming, but I doubt it.
Forum: Why Me? November 9th 2024, 09:55 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

At least a shift with both my favorite and least favorite people should balance out to be okay. I REALLY wish he would still listen to me about her though. Because even if the complaints are valid,...
Forum: Why Me? November 7th 2024, 12:02 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I wish the fact that most people agree with me would mean something.
Forum: Why Me? November 1st 2024, 07:27 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If you're going to claim that you love your people, then love them enough to tell the truth. You're holding them back while you pursue your own promotion, telling them what they want to hear so they...
Forum: Why Me? October 30th 2024, 05:35 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

She still doesn't trust him, and she's echoing everything negative I keep thinking. But, something keeps telling me to stay. I hope this isn't just another dead end.
Forum: Games and Things October 27th 2024, 09:25 PM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The only way you could better set me up to fail, would be to require it before promotion. And, even though you keep saying you don't, you absolutely are. And, I was actually in a good place for 2...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions October 27th 2024, 08:13 PM
Replies: 9,661
Views: 375,467
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

To get though my shift, I'm already tired.
Forum: Games and Things October 19th 2024, 08:23 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Most of the time, you are one of my favorite people. Other times, I can't tell if I'm being manipulated and being taken advantage of.
Forum: Why Me? October 17th 2024, 11:08 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You keep saying you're trying to make it fair, but it's clearly not. And I can't complain because I finally have what I want.

You said you weren't going anywhere, but it says you're leaving...
Forum: Why Me? October 13th 2024, 12:01 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

My life would be SO much easier if major adjustments like that weren't dropped on me without notice, and if she calmed the fuck down. I know this isn't sensory related, which means it's just too...
Forum: Why Me? September 30th 2024, 10:30 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I really wish I wasn't this excited. There's a good chance he'll be gone by the time I get there, I have a feeling he's leaving again, and the whole thing screams "unhealthy" But, at least if he...
Forum: Good Days! September 29th 2024, 07:00 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got a Sunday off, and I see my favorite manager on Monday
Forum: Games and Things September 28th 2024, 11:00 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I didn't ask you to, but much appreciate the break from her. I think you've finally realized that, despite continuing to work through things, I just can't work under her until she calms the f***...
Forum: Why Me? September 3rd 2024, 03:39 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I guess it really doesn't matter, as long as he's coming back (and they've all guaranteed that after this last one, he's ours again indefinitely.) especially if I can get a hold of him while he's...
Forum: Why Me? August 19th 2024, 07:33 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I can't wait for it to finally be over. Hoping 2 more weeks, but could be up to 6 total. Considering the events of Tuesday, we're all at our breaking point.
Forum: Games and Things August 19th 2024, 03:45 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

We come to an understanding, or I talk to your boss. You may be doing fine, but every single member of your team is struggling. And if your continued response to that is to dismiss us, claim...
Forum: Why Me? August 13th 2024, 04:07 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

1 day of this shit and I already fucking can't, to the point that he has to come in when he wasn't expecting to, to deal with them. Until you get your ass back in consistently, it's taking...
Forum: Why Me? August 9th 2024, 03:49 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

25 more days until that's finally over, and then 2-4 weeks more depending on who you believe, before he's FINALLY back where he belongs for more than 2 seconds. It shouldn't affect me this much, but...
Forum: Why Me? July 28th 2024, 03:26 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I shouldn't complain, because this is what I wanted, but I will never be a morning person; so early shifts suck. Especially after closing. And, it looks like at least 2 more weeks before I see my...
Forum: Good Days! July 24th 2024, 08:24 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I unexpectedly got to talk to my boss's boss, filled him in on some things, got my benefits fixed, and FINALLY got answers I've wanted for months!
Forum: Games and Things July 22nd 2024, 10:18 PM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

These are 2-person closes, and we're going to be slammed. If you want to bitch about the job I do, then do it yourselves!
Forum: Games and Things July 22nd 2024, 07:14 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Rude husband and wife customers to each other in front of me:
"Kind of, I don't know what that means."
"I don't know what it means either."

It means it's hard to do, I've only done it once, and...
Forum: Games and Things July 20th 2024, 03:23 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

On the minute chance that I see you tomorrow, I may as well tell you what I want to. It's not like it'll matter; or get the truth out of you.
Forum: Good Days! July 18th 2024, 08:22 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

Get to work with my 2nd favorite manager tomorrow while my favorite is gone A LOT trying to get promoted.
Forum: Why Me? July 18th 2024, 07:09 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I thought it would be better because she was gone, but it's worse because now it's like having 2 of her. If you're not staying to keep them under control, I'm not staying to put up with it.
Forum: Games and Things July 16th 2024, 09:33 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You constantly want us to trust you, but you tell people what they want to hear, and then do what you want. How can you expect anyone to trust that?!
Forum: Why Me? July 15th 2024, 04:17 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Well, at least knowing makes it easier, but I'm still disappointed that I probably won't see him for at least 2 weeks. And I said from the beginning, "He goes, I go." And the more I'm there while...
Forum: Games and Things July 10th 2024, 07:38 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I guess just because you'll be here for at least 2-3 more years, doesn't mean you'll be in the store a lot during that time. I'll soak up as much time as I can with you. Just promise that before...
Forum: Good Days! July 10th 2024, 07:35 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I actually got 2 days off in a row, I don't have to do inventory, and my hours are back up next week
Forum: Games and Things July 7th 2024, 04:23 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

I'm not even going to ask. He knows what I want, he'll wait until I'm ready. So, like the other one, I'll just pretend I'm not seeing them.
Forum: General Health July 6th 2024, 04:50 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 176
Posted By Kate*
Re: Blurred vision

I have a very long history of a lot of vision stuff wrong. It sounds like you've done everything right. If the professionals weren't concerned, and it hasn't gotten suddenly worse, with no other...
Forum: Why Me? July 4th 2024, 10:08 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm all for supporting him, but that doesn't mean you don't have to do your job! STOP DRAGGING YOUR FEET on this. You should've prepared better, and now this is your mess that we're dealing with...
Forum: Why Me? July 4th 2024, 07:06 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, yeah I'm a 2-year old that needs therapy. I knew that. Why the stupid rules say we have to have his bullshit schedule instead of his real one? is a mystery to me. How fucking hard is it to...
Forum: Games and Things July 3rd 2024, 07:22 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Enough is enough. It's time to acknowledge your limits, have the conversation you don't want to have, and step up for your own team. That's what a good leader does, and it's what you've done from...
Forum: Good Days! June 29th 2024, 03:59 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

Had the day off, and close tomorrow with one of my favorite people, and get plenty of time next week with my favorite manager.
Forum: Why Me? June 29th 2024, 12:22 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Well, I've been right and wrong, so I'm extending it to Black Friday. You all swear it'll be before then, but watch me be right; again.

I'm exhausted, and even with guaranteed hours, they're...
Forum: Good Days! June 26th 2024, 02:28 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

Short shift at work tomorrow. Full-time is amazing, but a break is nice too.
Forum: Games and Things June 24th 2024, 06:38 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You need to learn how to read a schedule. You kept us late because you said she was opening, but she's not, it's him.

Even with guaranteed hours, I'm STILL the first to get fucked with. What the...
Forum: Why Me? June 23rd 2024, 04:27 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, if I punch out late because nobody could be bothered to come and cover me within a reasonable amount of time, and I literally wasn't allowed to walk away, you're going to count that against me? ...
Forum: Goals and Ambitions June 23rd 2024, 04:25 PM
Replies: 9,661
Views: 375,467
Posted By Kate*
Re: Goal of the day!

Get through my shift tonight being exhausted
Forum: Games and Things June 20th 2024, 01:21 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Just so you know, I'm 100% continuing to do that out of spite. If you don't help me when I ask, you don't deserve to have the favor returned, regardless of your getting promoted over me. And yeah,...
Forum: Games and Things June 17th 2024, 11:57 PM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

At least you admit you could be wrong, and wouldn't disown your kids. But, for the record, admitting you could be wrong, doesn't mean you're any more right. And no one is trying to take your rights...
Forum: Why Me? June 16th 2024, 05:07 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to go in if he ignores me while I spend my entire shift on the register, and have to listen to her bitch. And I have a feeling that's EXACTLY what tomorrow will be 8 hours of.

I...
Forum: Games and Things June 15th 2024, 03:59 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

Work needs a management overhaul and our manager back.

I don't know why I'm looking forward to this, it's not going to turn out the way I want.
Forum: Games and Things June 13th 2024, 03:16 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I am struggling, the team is starting to feel it, we're starting to drown, and you walked out of the conversation! I need you to hear me and DO SOMETHING before this gets any worse. July is going...
Forum: Games and Things June 13th 2024, 02:52 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

I'm struggling without a real reason for the first time in forever. I wish I at least knew why, but I might have an idea.
Forum: Games and Things June 12th 2024, 01:37 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

So, they're allowed to vent behind closed doors, and I'm allowed to say something.

Problem with the other night being: I DID say something; and when he said no, I decided to cover my own ass,...
Forum: Why Me? June 10th 2024, 07:55 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Yeah, I feel like a tattle tale and wonder if I should've said anything. But, I refuse to get blamed for his shit by people who have no right to say anything in the first place.
Forum: Games and Things June 9th 2024, 04:18 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Don't say 6-8 weeks, when it's really 6-8 MONTHS. We need him back, WE are his priority, and he's going to burn out. Not to mention, we'll drown come November if he isn't back by then.
Forum: Games and Things June 8th 2024, 03:07 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

That I actually look forward to going to work now (most of the time, anyway). Most of the issues they had with me were caused by the uncertainty, inconsistency, and instability. Getting full-time...
Forum: Good Days! June 7th 2024, 05:24 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got an absolutely AMAZING performance review, everyone loves me, I finally get a day off tomorrow that I can fully enjoy, and then I close with my 2nd favorite person on Saturday.
Forum: Games and Things June 7th 2024, 03:48 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm doing amazing because I finally got what I've wanted (and deserved) from day 1, but had to bust my ass for over a year to get. And I care because there's a point. I wasn't going to waste my...
Forum: Why Me? June 6th 2024, 02:01 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm bottom of the totem pole, and I doubt it'll ever change. An amazing opportunity to network, and I was stuck where I couldn't move and talked to NO ONE. And she is MAJORLY on my nerves, but I'm...
Forum: Good Days! June 5th 2024, 12:46 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I get to see my favorite manager and his boss tomorrow, and I have some things to tell him.
Forum: Games and Things June 3rd 2024, 01:12 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

WE are your priority, and you need to ACT LIKE IT! Next time he calls, it's time to tell him enough is enough, we need and deserve to have OUR manager back.
And if you need him to force that on...
Forum: Games and Things June 1st 2024, 05:46 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The fact that you gave me shit for narrowly avoiding a meltdown the first day I finally did it and everything went wrong, because it's "Part of the job", and now give me the same shit while refusing...
Forum: Why Me? May 30th 2024, 12:34 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Of course I was right again. The attitude must be a personality trait common in people at this level, because every single person I've met in those positions is like that; and I can't fucking stand...
Forum: Why Me? May 26th 2024, 11:56 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Another overnight with my least favorite manager. I'm praying for something tedious to do so he leaves me alone. 3 more shifts and I never have to do one again.

I'm going to be stuck on the...
Forum: Why Me? May 23rd 2024, 09:20 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Your attitude is unacceptable. I was hoping things would get better when she left; but you're just as bad, if not worse. Grow up and do your fucking job! If I have to do it despite a disability...
Forum: Why Me? May 22nd 2024, 03:09 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

These 2 weeks are crazy intense, and I'm going to want a day off in between. But, considering how badly you need weekend closers, it probably won't happen. Maybe I'll get lucky though, and you'll...
Forum: Good Days! May 19th 2024, 07:41 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I put in my notice for the job I never wanted to pick up. So, 6 shifts left, and I can finally have what I've wanted for almost 2 years.
Forum: Why Me? May 19th 2024, 02:21 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You're scaring me. I'd call, but you're not off yet, and I don't want to call at a bad time. I'd feel better if I knew what the hell was going on.

The reality it may be hitting me. The truth...
Forum: Games and Things May 18th 2024, 01:55 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

This is the right move in every way possible, and I can't wait.
Forum: Why Me? May 16th 2024, 08:10 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

And, you're still barely going to be in your own store. You can brag about your abilities all day long, but if you aren't around to use them, what good does that do me?
Forum: Games and Things May 15th 2024, 02:09 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I shouldn't be looking forward to this, I know better. I'll be miserable, you won't be there, and even if you are, arguing will get me nowhere, and nothing will change.
Forum: Games and Things May 10th 2024, 04:40 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I just want it over with, because it's completely pointless, and I know exactly what you're going to say.

I'm amazing, but not promotable, the bad will all be trivial BS, or stuff I ended up...
Forum: Housing and Moving May 9th 2024, 11:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 212
Posted By Kate*
Re: Dream home?

For some reason, I've wanted like log cabin in the woods, but needing access to public transportation would make that impossible.
Forum: Food and Recipes May 8th 2024, 01:57 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 291
Posted By Kate*
Re: Coffee or Tea?

Hot Chocolate, or iced coffee. The only time I drink tea is if I'm sick and need to push fluids while I can't taste anything.
Forum: Food and Recipes May 5th 2024, 05:49 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 382
Posted By Kate*
Re: Pizza

Pepperoni, but really anything other than anchovies or pineapple is good. And before anybody comes for me, yes I've tried it, still don't like it.
Forum: Games and Things May 3rd 2024, 04:33 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I've done it for 4 months now, and the only things I've learned is that you still don't know what accommodation or disability means, and I was right about my abilities the whole time. You said I had...
Forum: Why Me? May 3rd 2024, 04:31 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Nauseous before an overnight with my least favorite manager, who literally never lets you breathe all night. I REALLY don't want to do this.
Forum: Why Me? May 2nd 2024, 05:27 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Next performance review will be very interesting. And where the fuck is the schedule, while we're at it?!

And that's called karma, bitch, and it's coming for all 3 of you. I'm sick to death of...
Forum: Why Me? April 28th 2024, 05:09 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, yeah, you tell me to be patient, and that I'm doing a great job. But, also that she isn't getting promoted over me when it's blatantly obvious, and that he doesn't have it in his character to...
Forum: Why Me? April 24th 2024, 12:48 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Well, yesterday's shift was a fucking nightmare, maybe tomorrow will be better. But, promotion is seeming less likely by the day. Giving my brain all the more reason to fucking destroy me. And, my...
Forum: Why Me? April 20th 2024, 07:51 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

All the more reason I would love for this to work out. I was told they'd be "rare" but they're 1/2 or 2/3 of my shifts. And, I hesitate to adjust availability unless I know for sure he can cover...
Forum: Why Me? April 16th 2024, 11:52 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'd say I'll just be the better person/employee and let things play out until I have her job. But, the last time I said that, it DIDN'T HAPPEN

We're being visited tomorrow. If he's still there...
Forum: Why Me? April 16th 2024, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

It's almost guaranteed that you'll change your mind, or you lied to me, or you meant something else. You really shouldn't say things in writing if I can figure out within seconds of looking at the...
Forum: Games and Things April 14th 2024, 07:13 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you're stringing me along until I'm a neurotypical extrovert, you may as well tell me I'll be promotable when I get taller. I'm not sure you really get that. Also, I think she's doing my review,...
Forum: Why Me? April 12th 2024, 07:26 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I FINALLY got it all sorted out, so OF COURSE you would CHANGE yours! I'm asking nicely for you to put mine back. Then I ask not so nicely, then I just call off. And, even if you say that wasn't...
Forum: Games and Things April 10th 2024, 05:22 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

He doesn't get it either, and he agreed to figure it out for me. Maybe they really are clueless, or at least new at this; because as soon as I told her I could always do full days, I got another 90...
Forum: General April 9th 2024, 10:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 364
Posted By Kate*
Re: Puzzles and crosswords.

Jigsaw puzzles, absolutely NOT, but word puzzles, sudoku etc. and logic problems I LOVE. But, I always do them online so I can fill in the answers I don't know, and it'll fix my mistakes for me.
Forum: Games and Things April 8th 2024, 04:11 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Are you understanding the part where I'm not available for full-time hours ONLY because I got another job so I could STAY with you, after you told me I would NEVER have full-time hours again? Yet...
Forum: Why Me? April 5th 2024, 01:35 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I need a day off so bad, but I have no idea when my next one is. But, this is EXACTLY why I asked you NOT to give me a shift. I'm exhausted and I don't need it!

You have ONE chance to give me...
Forum: Why Me? April 1st 2024, 07:23 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

So, technically it was my fault. But, if you hadn't been an ass hole, I wouldn't have wanted to get rid of you, and I would've done it right the first time, so, it's still partly your fault. If...
Forum: Games and Things March 29th 2024, 05:42 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As someone who's had more than his fair share of privileges because the manager is your friend, you don't get to complain about things not being fair.

This is why I said, and will continue to say,...
Forum: Games and Things March 28th 2024, 12:35 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

It might be more possible than I thought, but I don't want to get my hopes up. There's still no opening, and even if there was, I'd still be competing with a million neurotypical, naturally...
Forum: Why Me? March 26th 2024, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I only want to work when I'm not scheduled, explain that. I know what I want, and failing that, what I would be willing to accept. The problem is that it would take a miracle to get either. So, I...
Forum: Good Days! March 20th 2024, 09:39 PM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I was complimented by my coworkers and my assistant manager.
Forum: Why Me? March 18th 2024, 10:36 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I would only do that for you, and in return, I got shafted, and she didn't even speak to me; which may have another explanation, but is still off-putting. Maybe I'm not as welcome and wanted there...
Forum: Games and Things March 18th 2024, 10:27 PM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

When we eventually have the conversation that lays it all on the table, it's going to be VERY interesting. If you weren't as good a person as you are, I'd say you don't deserve me.
Forum: Good Days! March 16th 2024, 05:11 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I should be financially good for the rest of the year now, since hours will only come up from here.

And, tomorrow is tag day with 2 of my favorite coworkers.
Forum: Why Me? March 13th 2024, 06:46 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Some of that was deserved, but if that's seriously going to be your issue EVERY time I touch them, then I'll either stop admitting it's me, or you can do them yourself.

So, I might've REALLY...
Forum: Games and Things March 11th 2024, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

If you value family time that much, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, then you're in the wrong business.

STOP complaining to me about your hours. You are full-time, yours are guaranteed, I was...
Forum: Why Me? March 8th 2024, 03:33 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Something feels off, and it would help if I could check for my schedule, or reset my expired password from here instead of having to wait until it dies down tomorrow.

Worst fucking day, and I have...
Forum: General March 4th 2024, 07:37 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 406
Posted By Kate*
Re: Favorite month

October, it's not too hot or too cold, there isn't too little daylight yet, the leaves are pretty, and it smells good.
Forum: Games and Things March 3rd 2024, 11:30 PM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Thank God I have leverage for now, because 90 days in, and you're already trying to screw me over. But, for the record, I ASKED, I didn't TELL you, I made ZERO mention of it, and you'd have nothing...
Forum: Why Me? March 2nd 2024, 03:20 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Assuming things don't get any worse, and I hold out that long, it could be another 3-6 months. And even then, I doubt it'll do any good..
Forum: Games and Things February 29th 2024, 05:14 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I kind of hope you're back in tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'll be happy to see you, or just want to yell at you.

I see what you're doing, the least you could do is respect me enough to admit...
Forum: Games and Things February 26th 2024, 04:13 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Personally, I don't think you're doing well enough that you can afford screwing over some of your most loyal and dependable employees, (or take the risk of being accused of discrimination.) But,...
Forum: Why Me? February 25th 2024, 08:36 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Even if the position opens, she will 100% get it over me. That's what he means by "other things" he won't elaborate on, and it's how he's justifying everything.

I don't want to, but I need to if...
Forum: Games and Things February 21st 2024, 07:21 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You keep saying, when your youngest graduates, you can leave and go anywhere you want. I mean it when I say that if you leave, I leave. Even if it's years away.

And, I know you're jealous. ...
Forum: Why Me? February 21st 2024, 03:11 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I need more hours from you, because he doesn't have them. But, you're screwing me now too, so I don't even want to see what you said in response.

I'm probably just overthinking, but knowing that...
Forum: Games and Things February 17th 2024, 12:49 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I'm watching closely and considering my options carefully. Don't think for one second that I will let you jerk me around. Especially with seniority and protection on my side.
Forum: Why Me? February 12th 2024, 09:04 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to, but I will absolutely do so if necessary, you will NOT push me around. And she'd better be retiring, and those hours better come to me. 2 days at one, 3 at the other, no 15 hour...
Forum: Why Me? February 8th 2024, 12:08 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

6 years, and I'm STILL fighting with these COMPLETELY INCOMPETENT idiots. If I STILL have coverage I shouldn't have, it's because YOU didn't do your fucking job, and I'm NOT paying the price for it....
Forum: Games and Things February 5th 2024, 10:47 PM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The fact that I only get my schedule, and not the whole thing makes me suspicious. But, I know you mostly open, and all of my few shifts are mornings now, so I wonder if that's a coincidence. Or,...
Forum: Why Me? February 2nd 2024, 10:43 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Every single Saturday except one that was already scheduled, and now all my shifts are overnights! I don't like you enough yet to do this willingly.
Forum: Why Me? January 29th 2024, 04:47 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I really hope you didn't text the wrong person and that it's NOT truck day. I need the shift, but I HATE truck day.

You forced me to mess with it, and it's not my fault it's confusing. So, I...
Forum: Good Days! January 28th 2024, 11:07 PM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

I got the extra work shift I needed, and no overnights this week!
Forum: Why Me? January 26th 2024, 01:21 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Is he screwing me, not sending me the schedule, so I don't know, and this is just more excuses? Or is he telling the truth? I want to trust him, he's jerked me around, but has he royally f***ed me...
Forum: Why Me? January 21st 2024, 04:39 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

He's trying to see if I'm going to quit, or maybe he wants to let me go, but he cares too much, so he wants to make sure if he does, I'll be okay with another job. Maybe that's just me being...
Forum: Why Me? January 18th 2024, 04:28 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't have proof of any of this overthinking. But, considering how often I'm right about the scenarios I come up with, I have theories, and I'm just waiting for the truth to come out. And I'd...
Forum: Games and Things January 16th 2024, 10:32 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Say whatever negative things about it that you want, and they're all true. But, it means that I really trust you. You might be a hypocrite of the highest order, you might screw me over, and I may...
Forum: Why Me? January 15th 2024, 03:09 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Why would you transfer the prescriptions without refills, when I literally renewed them all before the end of the year to avoid this exact issue?! And fix your system so i can pay and be done with...
Forum: Good Days! January 14th 2024, 09:23 AM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

Despite 2 jobs, I'm only scheduled 3 days next week. Bad news for my finances, good news for my mental health.
Forum: Why Me? January 11th 2024, 05:02 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

What I didn't screw up, your nightmare of a system did! I will never enjoy it, but assuming the fucking thing cooperates and I can handle a no-receipt return, then I'm promotable, and you can't hold...
Forum: Why Me? January 7th 2024, 11:00 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

No, I really don't want to go in tomorrow, especially for a day shift, especially after losing it today. But, I need the hours and you need the coverage.

Worst day in a long time, aside from...
Forum: Why Me? January 2nd 2024, 09:00 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Yes, I know better, but I'm also working overnight tomorrow, and need my circadian rhythm as backwards as I can get it. So much for these being "rare" even I can't handle them this often.
...
Forum: Games and Things January 1st 2024, 01:30 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I HATE having to bother you multiple times, especially knowing you're on vacation. But, if you had sent me the schedules like you agreed to do, I wouldn't have to. So, it's kind of your own fault. ...
Forum: Good Days! December 28th 2023, 11:19 PM
Replies: 11,979
Views: 462,905
Posted By Kate*
Re: I'm happy today because...

They switched my noon shift to an overnight
Forum: Why Me? December 28th 2023, 06:03 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I would only consider it because it should take about 5 minutes. But, it's not even close to worth risking. I can do it tomorrow.

I can only hope that that schedule isn't official yet. ...
Forum: Why Me? December 24th 2023, 02:03 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

If things don't get better and/or you don't fix the schedule that you screwed up, then I have to decide if this is worth it. You said overnights would be "rare" 3/4 shifts is not even close. And if...
Forum: Games and Things December 23rd 2023, 04:49 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

What part of "Night owl turned vampire, who got off at 11:30 last night" are you not understanding?! You insist on making me work mornings, despite knowing that he has me work nights. I'm exhausted...
Forum: Why Me? December 22nd 2023, 07:39 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

2 more shifts and I'll FINALLY get a break, but sensory overload almost fucking killed me first.
Forum: Why Me? December 17th 2023, 05:07 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I'm not going to make it to Christmas with my sanity intact. And, with that new schedule, I now have to make it to New Years before things calm down. I avoided this because I knew my limits, and it...
Forum: General December 16th 2023, 05:28 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 466
Posted By Kate*
Re: Christmas Tradition

Our only major tradition of my mom's entire family having dinner and doing presents, ended when my grandma died, I say every year I want an advent calendar, because I've never done one; and that I...
Forum: Games and Things December 14th 2023, 05:20 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to trust your words, but your actions speak louder. "We're both doing what we have to do for right now." "I'm proud of you, I would've done the same thing." This was the best decision under...
Forum: Why Me? December 13th 2023, 03:36 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

You'll either regret this or not, and do something about it, or not. If I'm as valuable as everyone says, then he shouldn't have to literally FIGHT you every month, to give me what I'm asking for. ...
Forum: Why Me? December 9th 2023, 05:53 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Christmas can't come soon enough, I need my normal life back.

And, I still wish I didn't need both jobs. Even though it pays better, and can guarantee hours and advancement you can't, if you...
Forum: Why Me? December 9th 2023, 05:53 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Christmas can't come soon enough, I need my normal life back.

And, I still wish I didn't need both jobs. Even though it pays better, and can guarantee hours and advancement you can't, if you...
Forum: Why Me? December 4th 2023, 08:54 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do this and the nerves are finally setting in. I have to accept that, as obvious as it is to me and everyone else, I will never be what you want, and that you can be a decent human...
Forum: Games and Things December 3rd 2023, 03:37 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You can have great qualities and still screw people over. You knew exactly what you were doing, and I would've had more respect for you if you just admitted it.


I'm 99.99% sure it's never...
Forum: Why Me? December 1st 2023, 05:34 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Change is never easy, and I'm dealing with a shit ton of it at once. I'm shocked my anxiety isn't through the roof, but I'm sure it will show up eventually. It was worse before I decided what to...
Forum: Games and Things November 29th 2023, 06:17 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I want to believe what you say, and that you want to keep me, but I feel like you really don't. That the promotion I want, and even full-time will never come. That you already know that, and just...
Forum: Why Me? November 27th 2023, 06:26 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Part of me is still hoping for a miracle I won't get, so that I don't have to do this.

It's ironic that when I complain about the situation he's been forced to put me in, you say there's nothing...
Forum: Why Me? November 24th 2023, 01:33 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I don't want to do this

Maybe the fact that there will always be somebody better is my answer.
Forum: Why Me? November 21st 2023, 03:36 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I hate when my head and heart are at war with each other. Because logic usually wins, and the loss hurts like hell. This is so fucking stressful, and no matter what I end up doing, the outcome...
Forum: Games and Things November 20th 2023, 07:56 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

The situation is hard enough, but this makes it so much worse. I guess "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions." is true. In an effort to avoid crushing me, because you love people so much,...
Forum: Games and Things November 17th 2023, 06:05 AM
Replies: 152
Views: 10,833
Posted By Kate*
Re: What are you thinking about right now?

That there's a really good chance I'll have to quit my job. Even though my manager absolutely adores me.

I knew the day would come when I couldn't justify the position he put me in, and it was...
Forum: Games and Things November 17th 2023, 06:02 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

As sick as it makes me to think about, I think this was the last straw. It's a shame you're probably going to lose who you admit is one of your best employees over bureaucracy and policy, but here...
Forum: Why Me? November 17th 2023, 04:01 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I guess I should've known better. This is the same shit that always happens. But, just the thought of having to take another job or leave is making me sick. And the fact that I'll continue to get...
Forum: Games and Things November 14th 2023, 03:58 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I may struggle with criticism, but at least I'm not immature, petty, and passive-aggressive to the point of demoting myself or getting myself fired for being stupid. I assume by now you realize what...
Forum: Games and Things November 11th 2023, 02:10 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I need full-time, or I have to leave; and not because I want to. If I'm not getting them now, I'm sure as hell never getting them, and I can't do this anymore.
Forum: Why Me? November 9th 2023, 11:53 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

"I know you guys don't like it, but it could help me get promoted (to a job that isn't even open)"

I don't give a shit about your promotion because you have this selfish streak in pursing it that...
Forum: Games and Things November 7th 2023, 06:25 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope he was just wrong; because otherwise you BLATENTLY lied to me.
Forum: Why Me? November 6th 2023, 07:21 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I knew as soon as I thought I wasn't going to catch this cold, I was doomed, and here it is.
Forum: Games and Things November 4th 2023, 04:18 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

You need to stop contradicting yourself. It's infuriating. "I can't promote someone who can't hit standards." and explaining that if I couldn't meet said standards, you would let me down easy.
...
Forum: Games and Things October 24th 2023, 01:00 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

I hope I'm wrong about what I think I overheard. You know you deserve better, right?!
Forum: Why Me? October 23rd 2023, 07:35 PM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

The new hire is faster on her first day than I've gotten in a year. He can't promote if I can't hit standards. This is never going to happen. I'm not capable, I'm going to fail, and I'm going to...
Forum: Food and Recipes October 21st 2023, 07:05 AM
Replies: 5
Poll: Yogurt
Views: 382
Posted By Kate*
Re: Yogurt

I'll eat it sometimes, but I'm really picky because of sensory issues. Vanilla, chocolate, and sometimes strawberry, or the kind with the stuff you mix in, is it. No weird flavors, or textures...
Forum: Why Me? October 18th 2023, 07:53 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

I finally get what I want, and instead of what I've looked forward to, it's going to be miserable, because the stress is getting to him, and he's taking it out on me.
The fact that I'm conflicted...
Forum: Games and Things October 18th 2023, 05:12 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Just because I know why you're like this, doesn't mean it's acceptable. Your expectations are unrealistic, and I'll give up or quit LONG before you get what you want.
Forum: Why Me? October 15th 2023, 02:30 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

Either it's never going to happen, it's never going to happen, and he already knows that, I'll be ready with no openings, or, I just have to be more patient, while I'm right about all of these...
Forum: Why Me? October 11th 2023, 05:45 AM
Replies: 10,775
Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Screaming thread.
Views: 410,536
Posted By Kate*
Re: Screaming thread.

The FUCKING AUDACITY of these people; who have NO right to say ANYTHING or to treat me, or anyone else like that! You manage the way they treat me, or I will leave. You may allow them to treat me...
Forum: Games and Things October 10th 2023, 02:40 AM
Replies: 10,485
Views: 453,801
Posted By Kate*
Re: Say something you wish you could say to their face.

Assuming you had time, which you don't, I would NEED you to understand that my disability is real, and the ways it affects me are valid before anything else. I keep "focusing on" my diagnoses...
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