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| December 27th 2024 10:32 PM |
| DeletedAccount111 |
Re: Not sure what to do with my friend?
Hi there, I know you posted this a while ago and I hope things have been resolved now.
The important thing to keep in mind that it's ok to be firm with your boundaries and say the word "no" or "stop" when something makes you uncomfortable. You might feel comfortable around this person, but he was doing things like inappropriately touching you when you were snoozing or in a room with other people. Being a "sub" is perfectly, fine; but that should be kept to a private area where you're away from people. What he did was inappropriate, and you even said it made you uncomfortable.
Also, like Dez said, being sexual (whether with or without your consent) can get you and the other person in serious trouble. Expressing any indication of sexual behavior (regardless if you're 12 of 18) can have legal consequences because you're engaging in this behavior around other people who have not consented to seeing this act. You are subjecting them to sexual activity (again, regardless of age or consent given) that they never wanted to see.
School is supposed to be about learning. Keep the sexual act for the after-hours in the privacy of your home.
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| December 27th 2024 12:18 AM |
| Arabesque- golfing girl. |
Re: Not sure what to do with my friend?
Hello, I am sorry about everything that you are going through and I hope that you are doing okay now. Always talk about anything that you are going through because talking always helps because you all know what is going on. I hope everything is okay now.
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| June 11th 2024 05:12 PM |
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Re: Not sure what to do with my friend?
Hey,
I would talk to your friend about this. While it is okay to be sexual with your consent, it is inappropriate to be doing it in front of other people in a school setting. It could get you both in a lot of trouble.
I'd let your friend know that you're glad he's comfortable with his sexuality but please do not act sexually with you in school like this. You can say it makes you upset when he does this. You can let him know the things you are okay with either in public or in private. Make sure you are firm with this boundary. If he doesn't respect your boundaries, he's not a good friend and not someone you want to hang out with anyway, because a true friend is respectful of boundaries.
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| June 11th 2024 03:32 PM |
| Macrustried |
Not sure what to do with my friend?
So hi ppl this is js a trigger warning / graphic content? (Idk in my eyes its good to have a warning but 
So i need some opinions about one of my friends
Context: so im 13 and he is 14 (im bi but i havent come out to everyone yet) he is half a year older
Taller than me (i love height differences its so cute)
Also smarter than me 😭
He is really cute (or atleast i think hes cute)
We met a few years ago and like are fairly good friends who r pretty close but progressively he has become more "sexually active?" So it started last year were he was 13 and I was just 13. We were in some classes and I was really tired (stupid teen thing where u leave homework to the last minute) and i was feeling the "impacts" during classtime. I kinda just half slept on the table, since i knew most of the material from that class anyways it was fine. But what shocked me suddenly was that he actually covered me (like kinda slept ontop of me?) sorry if this doesnt make too much sense im trying i promise lol. Yeah he doesnt know im bi and like i find this stuff rlly cute. This evolved into SOME hugging but usually js me sleeping and him ontop. (Im a "sub" btw (like submissive?)) so i found this really cute. Recently he decided to *trigger warning* "finger me" according to him. I was really mad because we were in the school hallways during class change period time? (Aussie thing) i also felt uncomfortable for the first time because i thought it was a bit far. Now today we were in history and he had a flute lesson, for which he had to leave history early but because the teacher was explaining a task he was stood up behind me (towering over me im short 5"3 hes 5"9) and just standing there. The thing is *trigger warning?* he started to hump me PASSIONATELY in class, which nobody saw *thank god* but im not sure what to do now. :0 does anyone have suggestions?
Anyways, thx so much for taking the time to read this <33
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