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Re: Never had a girlfriend - January 16th 2013, 12:37 AM

Hey there,

I'm sixteen and a girl, but I know that I have never been in a relationship and never have been kissed either. However, from what I have read about you you don't seem to be a bad guy at all. You seem to be nice and caring, and I don't think you fit the stereotypes at all. It's okay if you don't have all of the fancy new items out there. Don't change for anyone else. Be yourself!

The thing about all of those material items is why would you want a girl who cares so much about them anyway? If she loves you just for what objects you may have, then does she really love you for you? I know it may be tough to see now, but there will be a girl out there who will like you for your personality, not just your checkbook. Dating isn't about who has the most money or the coolest items. It's about being there for your partner and loving them, and them doing the same for you.

So, focus on school, friends, and having fun for now. There's no rush to get a girlfriend, really. Even if it doesn't happen right now, it will happen for you, maybe even when you least expect it!

Hang in there!

-Dez


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