[Celaena-Sardothian]

Hey there

I seriously doubt that anyone is going to give you tips on how to cut yourself. If you've only just started, and you haven't already talked to someone about it, then I really recommend that you do. Preferably someone who can get you help - that way you can figure out the reasons why you do it. Please don't feel stupid for not knowing why you do it - it's amazing how many people have no idea. I've been SHing for 4 years now (with some massive breaks inbetween), and I only vaguely know my reasons (well, some of them).

Another thing to try is seeing if you can identify what emotions you are feeling every time you get an urge/what lead up to you feeling that way. But I really recommend telling someone. You deserve help to overcome this problem.

Hope I helped
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