Like the above posters said, everybody is different and not every alternative will work for everyone. That said, the butterfly project sometimes works for me. When I draw the butterflies on myself, they usually don't have an effect, but I try not to kill the ones other people draw on me. It's nice to look down and be reminded that someone cares. Also, my friend Justine draws really elaborate butterflies, and they're so pretty I don't want to hurt them
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