[SamMarie]

I agree with the post above me. I'll be honest, I was never into Online Dating, but that's how my boyfriend and I happened. We've been together for almost a year now and couldn't be happier. (Well, I probably could with him). I think you should pursue the girl by being respectful. I say RESPECTFUL strongly because if you want a serious relationship from someone you'd like to meet on the internet, then don't be like most guys online who only wants someone for their physicality. Message her and tell her how pretty she is. Not terms like, "You're hot and sexy." It's just a turn off. Make the effort to get to understand what her interests are. Then, try to webcam with her on Skype or another available cam site. Observe how interested she is with you and how interested you are with her and then ask her if she wants to meet up. Of course, all of this takes time. Make sure she's not too far from you! I hope things work out. Good luck!