[Krissyxo]

Although we've only been dating for less than a month but have been seeing each other for a long period of time before we got in a relationship, I am concerned for how he may be dealing with the situation that occurred last week involving my best friend of 12+ years.

My best friend told me that she knew my boyfriend was drunk at the time but that she had sex with him anyway, even though he was not in the right state of mind to make such a decision. The story she told me is extremely contradicting; saying he forced her down, pinned her on the bed yet she goes to also say that she consented, that it wasn't rape but then she says it was 50/50 on both parties. After I broke the news to my boyfriend about what was told to me, he freaked out and was told by her and I quote this, 'I wasn't going to do anything with you, but you were drunk and I wanted you.'

My boyfriend does not remember anything that happened that night and was disgusted when he found out when I told him what she confessed. She also goes to tell me that he didn't 'seem' drunk because he wasn't stumbling over; I simply told her that alcohol affects people differently (I should know since I'm one of them). The police are involved, and she may be getting charged for taken advantage of a drunken person--even though they consented to the act, she was sober and knew exactly what she was doing when my boyfriend did not. The only evidence he has are the text messages of that night, and the confessions she was telling.

I'm not sure if I should get involved by showing the police the text messages I have on my phone, in case I was told something by this woman that she kept secret from my boyfriend in an attempt to not get in trouble for what had occurred.