[SamMarie]

My life in general has only been College and being with my boyfriend. I will hang out with friends during college break hours. I'm not working lately because they don't need me right now which is okay to keep up with my studies. However, i'm all of a sudden feeling like I'm becoming clingy in my relationship when I don't want to. My boyfriend and I hang every other days or some days every two days. I think that's a good amount of spacial time for ourselves.. at least I think so. We are almost 10 months in our relationship (My longest relationship). We are both Gamers, so, before we met each other, we would play video games. We would play video games sometimes during our relationship, but work and college or other necessities got in the way. I don't really play games in general anymore. Lately, he got a new game that he has grabbed his attention. He talks to his friends and plays this game a lot, which is fine. But, I felt like he lost his attention on me when I come over his house.

We usually watch movies, but him to be playing a game excessively got annoying, but he didn't completely ignore me. We did have our time together. I'm not sure why I feel this way now. I confront him about it and he states that it shouldn't be wrong for him to have his own time sometimes and that I should understand. I do understand, but I don't know if it's the comfort in the relationship during the length of time we have been dating or if I'm just becoming this clingy girlfriend. I am always available and I want to be able to tell him that I'm busy so that he misses me more so I don't seem overly available and clingy. I'm confused with my own emotions. What should I do?