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Re: Girlfriend Help - September 21st 2012, 06:34 PM

It's normal to lose that "puppy love" feeling by this point in the relationship. And if you have never reached that point in a relationship before it can be really confusing. If she says she still loves you then you have to trust her. By constantly questioning her about this you may be upsetting her. She may feel like you don't trust her. Especially since you keep asking her about these dreams. You can not control what you dream! You just can't. And you should not take these dreams to mean that she no longer wants to be with you. I think you need to leave that subject alone and just move on from it. Dwelling on it will be fruitless or even harmful.

I do, however, feel that the fact she does not want to sleep in the same bed with you is a little odd. Now, it could be something as simple as the bed is tiny and two people don't fit. But, it might mean that she needs some space right now. Living with your partner before an official engagement or even marriage can come with its own set of problems. You need to ask her why she no longer wants to sleep in the same bed. I think that could open up the real conversation you want to have with her, instead of asking her about her dreams again.




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