Her virginity is a personal choice. The fact that you want to try to MAKE her give you her virginity as, like, a birthday present I personally think is horrible. It makes you sound like a jerk who has no respect for her right to make a choice over what she does with HER body. It actually disgusts me that you think you have a right or a reason to make, coerce or otherwise convince her to do something she already said she doesn't want to do right now.
On the surface, there is a risk of pregnancy and STD's, but that falls into the category of risk assessment that one must acknowledge whether they have sex or not. But people also have to choice when it is right and with whom it is right. The frequency with which a person has boyfriends/girlfriends does not necessarily correlate with which the number of partners they'll have sex with. And it is HER body. Unlike Cream Cheese I am not looking at her withholding sex meaning she respects herself, I think it is fine to have sex with people as long as you aren't doing it for the wrong reasons (ex. for attention, to get someone to like you etc). But I think it is a matter of having the respect for yourself to have sex where and when you want to.
Regardless of all that, I think you really need to rethink what you are saying here. Realize how it makes you look (VERY VERY bad and shallow). It is incredibly wrong, to the point of being despicable, to attempt to pressure her into having sex with you. What do you want? The girl cause she is great? Or sex cause it's great? If you actually like the girl, she'll take priority over sex, and while sex can still be important, you should do her a favour and break up with her if you are so shallow as to choose sex over the respect you should have for your girlfriend. But seriously, you sound like a major jerk for trying to pressure her as much as this. Seriously, I quote:
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How do I make her not make me wait until next year, but give me her virginity on my birthday?
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. Think about what the hell you are saying there and realize how bad it sounds and think about whether you can be bothered to have more respect for her and if you can't, like I said, do her a favour GET OUT and let her meet a more decent respectful guy. She deserves to lose her virginity to someone who cares about her and respects her enough to respect that its HER choice to lose her virginity where and when SHE choices. It's not when YOU choose. SHE. HER DECISION. NOT YOURS. HERS. Sex has to be a mutual decision. And so far there is only one consenting party and you can't force her to say yes any sooner than she chooses. So respect that and get over yourself