[sphynx]

Originally Posted by anarchy_07

Guys:

When you tell a girl that you like her a lot, but you have soo much going on in your life that you can't be in a relationship with her. If you tell her you really want to, but you can't. That you rarely ever try getting involved in a relationship and that it's hard for you to say.

Is it a nice way of saying you're not interested? or could it be the truth?

I'm not a guy, but as someone who's said this before and had it said to her, I would trust what he's telling you. Besides, what purpose is doubting it going to serve, really, other than potentially damaging any opportunity at a relationship you may have in the future. Has he given you any reason not to trust him? Or any reason to feel as though he's not being sincere? If not, honour what he's said, and try not to get too paranoid about it. Sure, there's a chance he's not interested, but there's also the chance he's telling you the truth. And seeing as banking on the first is a huge gamble with the latter, I'd rather try trusting the latter and be proved wrong than never have a chance at it being proved right because I doubted him from the get-go.

xo Claire