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A lot of women start out without knowing how to hold a baby, change a diaper, what to feed babies, etc. A lot of it will come naturally, and some of it you learn from nurses, classes, etc.

Taking a mothering class might be beneficial to you and your boyfriend. Most of the time they are free or really cheap. Speak to your local hospital or women's clinic (Planned Parenthood is one) about any classes they know about. Asking the doctor you see might help as well, as they might have some suggestions.

I know this is hard and scary, but since you are keeping the baby, try to think of it as a blessing. You get to bring life into this world. Sure it's not the way you wanted or planned, but it is happening and since you are keeping it, it's better to be happy about it (for all of you) than to be upset and hating it (the situation).

Definitely start saving up, let friends and extended family know you are expecting and see if anyone would be interested in a baby shower. This is where many parents get a lot of the needed supplies, cutting costs greatly.

You can also see about government assistance for money, such as food for the baby WIC (in the US) and Food Stamps (food for you and the household, including the baby). There is also HUD (pays some of the rent depending on number of occupants and income).

If you have further questions, please feel free to PM myself or Shannon (the other mod of this forum), or post in here. No question will be too dumb. As I said, lots of women start out not knowing what to do.

Also, your local library will be your best friend right now, Read up on the pregnancy books. What to Expect When Expecting is actually a fairly good book to prepare for a baby. There are several other pregnancy books to help you learn about the pregnancy and labor processes, the baby and how to handle it and options for when it cries, and toddler years.

Hang in there. I know you aren't excited or happy about it right now, but Congratulations. Try to make it a happy thing.