[Lorelei]

Mizu, I can tell how much you and your fiancee love each other. And I can tell that both of you are terrified. But it takes two to make a baby, and since the baby is half of you then the baby is partially your responsibility.

My brother and his wife had a baby wayyy before they planned. Like, five years before they planned. But my brother took responsibility. He manned up and became a father, and he loves his family more than anything else. It's no fairytale, but he is still madly in love with his wife, and their daughter is amazing.

It's been said that a woman becomes a mother when she first finds out she's pregnant, and that a man becomes a father when he first sees his child. I'm hoping that's true for you.

I wish you, your fiancee, and your child nothing but the best.
Take care.