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Re: Boyfriend wants to move in with his best girlfriend. - August 15th 2012, 09:04 PM
Hey,

I have to agree with the majority on this one. During my third year at university I lived with my two best friends at the time, one was a guy and the other was a girl. The guy had a girlfriend at the time, but it didn't cause any problems because none of us were interested in each other.
I can understand your dilemma, but I would suggest getting to know his friend more. Because I'm sure if you knew her, you'd feel a lot more comfortable about it. Guys and girls can easily be friends, and you said they've known each other for a really long time. Don't give him an ultimatum, or tell him to choose, because it could end up really badly for you. Not because he doesn't love you, but because she's his best friend, they've known each other for a long time, and there's a steady friendship/source of support there.
Just talk to him about it.

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