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I think you need to find someone physically attractive. Whether we all want to admit it or not, it is important in sexual attraction. But that doesn't have mean you only date the prettiest boys/girls of the world. People seem to miss understand physical attraction with "if your hot then I'll like you, if your not hot then I won't" which isn't the case, it's just that you need to be attracted to how a person looks, even if they aren't the present "classic standard" is (read: what ever actors everyone says is hot). You can't date someone you think is ugly, come on. And again, not all of us have the same view on "ugly", sure there is "ugly" in your simply unfortunate looking, but there is the simple "you don't appeal to me psychically". And I quote ugly cause I HATE that word, I think it is harsh and cruel and like I have been saying, some merely have it easier than others when it comes to physical appearance, but attraction is subjective. Heck, some of my friends date/like guys/girls who I think are fugly, but they think the guy/girl is hot as hell. And it also doesn't discount personality. If you really like her as a person and the age is good (a year is no biggie, and it's not like she's 15 and your 18 thus flouting consent laws), then don't discount her, get to know her more, if you can't bring yourself to want to date her cause not all the ends continue to meet then you can at least just settle for friendship. Lot's of people need to get to know a person more before wanting a relationship.