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Awkward: My boyfriend's ex girlfriend messaged me on Facebook - July 12th 2012, 06:53 AM

Background: We've been dating for 8 months, [me, 19 female, him, 20 male]. He cheated on me within the first week of us dating with the girl he cheated on his previous girlfriend with. Obviously he had a weakness for her, but I decided (after much deliberation) to stay with him and work things out. Fortunately, things are great. He broke of any contact with this girl because she was obviously not good for him in any way. Bad thing about this was that she was the one to tell me what happened (or so I thought) before my boyfriend had a chance.

Now: She messaged me on Facebook telling me that she had a dream about me, and also that she was not the one to send me the message telling me that my boyfriend cheated with her. Someone else I guess found out what happened and got into her Facebook and sent me a message. She also said she felt really guilty when she woke up, which is why she had to apologize now.

I should probably mention that this girl is pretty crazy. First, with the being the other woman, and she's pretty much a crazy Christian. Not to bash Christians, because I am one myself, but she takes this WAY too far. Like, she beat up a bisexual girl because shoving scripture down her throat wasn't getting through to her. This got her kicked out of a Christian college.

Naturally, I was pretty suspicious about this, so I asked my boyfriend what I should say. I ended up asking who had sent the message and being kind of nice to her telling her that I hoped her apology made her feel better and that I had already forgiven her. Well, she wouldn't tell me who had sent it, so I'm thinking that she's just saying she didn't so she can start some new crap.

I don't know what to say to her. I feel like calling her out, but I can easily get carried away and be too mean sometimes. I don't want to be mean, really. I just don't want to be lied to -.-