[Daivia]

Yes, as a female I get a lot of of visitors and messages, at least half from people who can't read looking for a hook-up. But this week I actually met someone nice, in person no less. I had a good time just getting to know them at a park across from the library.

Yes, little details can really help when start conversation. For example, I have the number of books I've read this year (55) along with the pages (19,175), as well as non-sequitor that simply states Crows>Faeries. I also list the webcomics I read, because a common interest in webcomics can help tell you what a person is interested in a general sense (action, storyline, humor, etc etc).