Hi, I am new so I don't know if I'm doing this right. But a couple nights ago (2) I was at a party just some close friends and we were all drinking. Now before I continue I've been with my girlfriend for not even 2 months and my buddy has been with his for 8 months. I met my buddies girlfriend during detention and we started shooting the
sh*t I left there with the feeling that I may already be into this girl we hangout and she got my buddy's number off me because we all took the same bus and what not well I came to the desision I did like this girl and I told him all about it ( me and my buddy have been best friends since grade 9 we are 18 and just graduated) well I come to soon find out that they started dating behind my back and he was honest about it soo.. But in the past probably grade 10 I liked this girl and the same buddy ended up dating her to so I at this point have some kind of grudge on him...anyways at the party we all got pretty
sh*t faced and she got mad that he did something and went and took his alcohol from her house and we drank all that to me and 2 other friends end up staying the night at her house one passed out me and my friend from the party were up ( keep in mind me and my buddy's girl turned into bestfriends quickly and had a harmlessly flirty friendship) so me and my friend are still up and my buddy's girl walks downstairs and says she needs to talk to me and she will be on the back porch so I went to see what was going on and. Asked her "what's up" and she's says "this" and kisses me I stopped for a second and looked at her and for a minute all those feelings came back so I kissed her and we started making out and we ended up leaving the porch so we wouldn't get caught and we both told each other we r not having sex well after neck kissing and feeling around and stuff one thing led to another (cliche I know) and we had sex... I won't lie it was such a rush and was so amazing. She tells me the next morning she needs to tell her boyfriend so I met up with my girlfriend and told her and she told her boyfriend the same day when he got back from his camping trip. I talked to him and to say the least he wants me dead, he stayed with her and my girlfriend stayed with me but I lost my best friend, trust from my girlfriend and the girl from that night
sh I considered my bestfriends as well won't talk to me. I'm not going to blame the alcohol because I knew what I was doing. And the situation is pretty much delt with but I don't know what to do I lost him and a group of friend.... Some people are happy for me because he doesn't treat her right at all but I just don't know what to do how to handle it ... I know this is very long but if anyone took the time to read it all please try and give me advise or opinions maybe.