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Re: Questions for the opposite sex - June 23rd 2012, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Cloud9rainbow View Post
To guys:
Why do most guys my age mostly want skinny girls (i've been on a few dating sites and the guys on them who think i'm attractive are in their 30s..ew)
I know I'm not a guy, but I just wanted to comment on this, because I'm what you would consider "curvy" and I asked a similar question years ago. Every guy has different preferences. Some men want "stick figures," some want the "hourglass figures," some want "BBW" (big beautiful women), etc. It really just depends, and girls are the same way! Some want ultra-muscular men, some want men who can wear skinny jeans, some want men who are a little chunky, etc. With all of that being said, the media tends to portray two types of women as "ideal": the "stick figures," and the "hourglass figures." Younger men tend to feel more pressure to like and look for women who fall into those two categories. As they grow older, they tend to become more certain of their preferences, hence the reason why 30-something year old men are going for you, but the 18-year-old men aren't. Be patient, and I can assure you that someone will come along and love the way you look. =)