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Re: Im on a break with my girlfriend... I need advice - May 23rd 2012, 09:29 PM

It seems like she wanted a new relationship with you as a rebound. I could be wrong, but that sounds like what it is. She's still fresh with the break up and although she wants to start a new relationship with someone new, no one with a brain and a heart could really go out there to start a new relationship like nothing happened previously especially for that long. It's going to hurt and you're just going to have to accept that. Usually time is the only answer in this situation. You can not force her and although it is her fault she didn't tell you beforehand, you should understand she's still trying to mend a broken heart. Right now, she's going through a range of emotions which can lead her to things to do things like untagging pictures. The best thing is to leave her alone when she wants and just remind her that you're there for her if you need anything and nothing more. You could have a future once she collects herself, but it may take some time. If you have the patience, I can see a future. If you can't handle it, don't expect shortcuts. Just let it go then. Good luck!