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Re: Questions for the opposite sex - May 22nd 2012, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Yours Truly View Post
Personality is definitley the most important thing for me.. Not even just if the guy is nice, but a good sense of humor, similar interests, etc..

Don't say you're ugly. You're being too hard on yourself. (: Confidence is also a big factor for a lot of people.. The more confident you are, the more likely it is that peopel will notice you, etc..

Anyone worth anyones time should be able to look past any physical imperfections, becuse no ones perfect. But that doesn't mean people always do, unfortunatley.


My question is for anyone, guys or girls: If you were attracted to someone.. Then found out They have had numerous surgeries.. have a lot of scars.. Physically.. Like.. covered in surgical scars,.. Would that bother you?
Thank you I suppose I just haven't got that confidence needed in me, plus even though you say it don't matter, things like size still is a huge (well...small!!) insecurity and embarassment. I can't see myself ever getting out of this shell TBH


And no, aslong as she is a loving, caring, sweet girl,that's all that matter. Things like scars and cute don't matter, I'd just worry about how she got them, and take care of her